How would you all judge the difference between on how a girl views a guy as being cheap and being supplicating?

For example, let's say you took a girl out to a bar and the girl bought you first round of drinks. If you offer to pay for the second round, would you consider that to be supplicating or preventing yourself from looking cheap?

I know it's a judgmental call based on the situation and the girl, but I just want to get a general idea on what you guys feel a general difference is between being a cheap ass and being supplicating.

I tried searching for a similar topic but I couldn't find it, so any help would be appreciated.

I think it depends how long you have known the girl. I recently came across this problem. If you barely know her then don't pay, if you do know her, pay. don't be to mean though, i don't even know how to precisly solve the situation, but if i come up with one i'll tell you

hey dude. the chick bought you the first round of drinks which generally means she's definitely interested. when you buy the second round if she gives you a look or a comment just respond with "hey, I can't let you buy all the drinks because then i'd have to take you out to dinner"... or something of the like

also, you're just over analyzing man

Yes i agree with pokernumen, you are just over analyzing... i would say buy her a drink or don't just let it play out... if you dance take onto the floor after the first drink... when its over, if she bought you a beer, i would offer her a shot...

Her buying you the drink so interest... which tells you she has given you value... now increase your value buy entertaining her.. then when the time is right have another drink... ALCOHOL is NOT the answer... entertain, make her laugh, be confindent... and most importantly BE YOURSELF

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