me and my girlfriend have been going out for about a month and a half but were dating for the 3 months before that before we began being monogamous..ever since we started going out her interest in me has depleted-stopped texting/calling nearly as much, doesnt want to hang out as much, and talks to me differently/less affectionately such as stopped calling me babe/baby...as a result of all this i have became really bored with her and it sounds like she is bored with me as well..I want to still be with her, but propose an open relationship where we can hook up with other people..I still do really like her a lot, maybe even love, but i think proposing this might ignite the feelings she once had for me..how should i say this to her to make her seem like she let me get away and that im less interested and her, pretty much anything to ignite the sparks we once had..and anything you suggest to get her to maybe like me as much as she used to and feel like im more of a challenge to her..thanks for the help guys

ok, so hobbit i have a question..im 17 and currently in a relationship but i do have inner game issues..although i am much happier now with my relationship than i was when i was consitently making threads on it it still isnt where i would like it to be, but it is getting better which is why i want to stick with it..but when i was at the point when i was making threads i was so opposed to breaking up with her because its my first relationship ive ever been in and also shes my first love so just ending it just like that would have been hard for me..but what can i do to try and improve my inner game as a 17 year old? thanks and sorry for stealing your thread a little bit dayghost
edit: someone made me my own thread i guess..alright haha

Ok another question, I am in an open relationship with my gf and we are 17 years old, live around 30 min away..i was on the phone with her and asked her about her weekend earlier this morning..she told me that friday night she slept over this guy she met on vacations house in the city, and he is 24 years old and we are 17 which is very creepy to me..she claimed that she only made out with him and then i told her that i didnt believe her and then she said that he fingered her and then i told her i didnt believe her again and she said that she gave him a handjob but that was it and once again i told her i didnt believe her but she claims thats the extent of it..we are in a open relationship so she can do whatever she wants but its the fact that she had lied to me twice that really bothered me and i told her this..i also remembered that i texted her friday night and she never responded but then the next day told me that she didnt have her phone on her, which was obviously bullshit because she was in the guys apartment..she has been trying to text/call me all day and i answerred her text once saying that i wnated her to stop calling/textting me and i would call her when i feel like it but she has continued to call/text me and told me that if i dont answer she is going to pick me up at school tomorrow..idk what to do at this point ..should i continue to ignore her until i feel like calling her? the fact that she SLEPT OVER this kids house alslo bothers me so i am going to tell her that if she does that once again im going to break up with her..