Scenario: I number closed an HB8.5 on London's Underground and she adds me on facebook the next day. We text and I get her to demonstrate interest, then qualify herself before I organise a Day 2 for five days later.

I always wait longer to text her back than she takes to text me. I keep it light and non commited and cocky.

Problem: how do I keep contact in the five day period so that she doesn't get second thoughts and flake? I've been getting a lot of flaking from numbers.

going on dates are hard. Women always like to keep their options open. Just don't take it personal. The world is a big place, and sometimes other things are just more fun than you. If you can accept that you will be less frustrated.

As far as texting this girl. You should orgainze an event like london underground to go to with her. Or you can ask her to lunch.

The problem with flakes is that you don't repeat the same venue with the same about of energy. If you take a girl you meet in a club, and try to take her to lunch your working with a big energy changer. You need to keep energy high with those club girls.

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Walk Hard

Energy's not a problem. I met her on the Train, so anywhere else is an up from there.

I also don't worry about going on dates. If a girl comes to meet you then you should be able to kiss her and take her home. I'm more worried about keeping her invested interest in the interim between organised day 2 and the actual day.

Any ideas on how to text, or a phone call at some point? or nothing between now and then?