Just thought I'd share my 7 approaches for today. They were all on campus during the afternoon. I think playing them over again in my head will help me improve. If you guys pick up on stuff I can do better let me know. Thanks!

Girl 1
She was standing outside the Business Hall texting on her phone by a tree. I went up to her and said, "Hi." She looked very surprised and said hello back. "you're cute I wanted to meet you. My name is Joe." She introduced herself and tells me she is waiting on her boyfriend. We talk for a few more minutes and I leave. Pretty sure she actually had a boyfriend.


Girl 2
Got the warm up now, and am feeling good. Wtf can't I get in that kind of state b4 my first approach. Walking down campus and see 2 girls in front of me. "Hey random cute girl." She turns around and we talk for a while. There is definitely attraction. We just talk for 30 seconds. Everything goes good, but we were headed in different directions. Looking back I should have said, "Stop, I'm not headed that way."

Girl 3
I'm glad I didn't talk to that girl because not a minute later I spot a HB 8. She's walking through the grass in goofy shoes, and it is kind of muddy. My opener was "Hey". She turns around because she was about 10 feet behind me. I walk up to her and say, "Hi, I wanted to meet you." My name is Joe. I ball bust a bit. We walk for about 5-10 minutes on campus and have a great conversation. "I'm like what are you doing right now?" I was trying to set up a day 2 for tomorrow, but didn't really get it worked out. Just said, " I'll call you tomorrow when you get out of class at 3:30." "You can come grocery shopping with me." Her:"You're so random."

Girls 4-7
This is taking a bit longer so Ill group these together. All of the approaches were the same....Direct. Girl 4 went well. She told me she had a boyfriend, but I didn't eject. Actually got some great attraction, but she wouldn't give me her number b/c of her boyfriend Will lol. Girl 5, same deal...didn't eject, got attraction.
Girl 6 went really good. Met her and took her on a mini date to a coffee shop. Pretty sure I'll f-close this one later next week.
Girl 7, went up to her on my bike. First thing she said is, "I have a boyfriend."


Looking back....2 sets I got strong closes with phone numbers. 1 set went well. I got attraction, but ejected for no reason. 1 set went pretty bad, and there is no way she actually had boyfriend. I got no attraction. 3 Sets go a lot of attraction, and actually believed they had boyfriends. From now on when a girl tells me she has a boyfriend, I will just say" I can relate, I actually have a kid myself." Then ill keep talking to her until she tells me to get the fuck away.

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"Fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the mind."

Haha. I had to comment on that. Its because of the adrenaline flowing in your body. Imagine yourself skydiving and right after you reach to the ground, you wanna do it again! same thing here. To simply having this feeling automatically you gotta to get used to and embrace it, and then you'll start to adopt it.

As for your pick-ups, I think you are showing to much interest. I mean I know that's the purpose of the direct opener, but when putting this into Push/Pull terms you are simply doing more pulling than pushing, hence the "i got a boyfriend" response.

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"Despite all the giggling, blushing and talk about having a deep connection, it all ends
with a cock in her mouth." ~60 Years Of Challenge

I don't continue to keep pulling the whole interaction. I like to create some sexual tension. For example:

Me: So where are you headed?
Her: Im going to my psychology class.
Me: okay cool. so are you reading me right now? (Do a cold read of her) You're a little too shy for me i think. or "You really seem like you're a fun person, I don't think we would get along."

Her: Why?
Me: because were too alike. I wouldnt put up with your shit and you wouldnt put up with mine.

Right now, I am experimenting with feeling joy when I get rejected. Like imagining the happiest moment of my life, and how I felt. When I get rejected feel that happiness. I hope it raises my level of I don't give a fuck to a new level.

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"Fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the mind."