Ok bit of an odd one, girl who met few months ago on holiday nothing happened but did feel some spark between us. Funny enough main reason nothing happened is because she thought I was a "player" which to be honest couldnt be further from the truth. Didnt use anything cheesy or stupid but she thought I said the same kinda things to a different girl each week & just used them.

Met up again this weekend went ok but didnt really lead anywhere as she had to leave with her mate. Now not the best with my texting game and have read countless times keep it short, flirty and fun etc. She text me on the sunday and maybe cos was running on little sleep all the following txts were boring as hell from me, like dull questions. Her last txt didnt really ask for a reply so didnt give it one. Thing is where to go from here....can quickly see her getting bored but 'cos sent her whole day of rubbish "nice" texts tho think be really random to start sending cocky funny style texts but at same time need to get off my current route fast, and get some spark back!! appreciate if anyone can help fix this!!???

Everything done over the phone should be a way to get the girl out on a date.

Maybe let it stew for a few days and if she doesn't get in touch send her something like 'I just saw a midget with 3 nipples, made me think of you. I have missed your musk. I am going shopping tomorrow, come help me pick out a new banana hammock.'

thanks tho main problem is shes not local so would have to sort something out properly if trying to meet again instead of bringing something up like that out the blue. Just want to use some texts to keep some contact and get some banter going before attempting to progress it. But like said after like 3 hrs sleep must have been txting like a zombie on sunday as all my texts were just dull boring and full of fluff. Just want to try bring some flirty fun stuff back but dont wana go over the top cos didnt send anything like that before. Any advice be really appreciated!

Look mate, I was in the same shoes as yourself, I used to think if she didnt ask a question then she was bored. This is sometimes true, say for example she doesnt give you an hooks or anything then dont text back. Many girls tho will make statements which can be answered or not, for example a text I recieved:

"I knw iv gotta prove myself as ur fav sara! lol! I shal add u wen I get on facey b"

Now this text doesnt have a question in it, but I have some banter going about her being my second favourite Sara, so I send back:

"Haha! my favouritism has to be earnt = P Sara I am going to be so fucked l8r, I have been persuaded to out again!"

This is one of many examples that I could list! But hopefully you get the gist! I also never asked any questions, so she can answer to my text or not. If she doesnt I dont lose any value, if she does she can tell me about her night.

"Iv been in bed since 9 watching dvd's wit jammy dodgers and fresh milk lol! Have a gd nyt and take care"

like they say above. Don't assume that this girl has great txt game, she wants you to talk.

if you get the "I'm doing X at the moment txt at night"

go with something like

"Well I've just oiled up my body, and am laying down and watching the moonligh reflect off my rock hard, defined torso. You'd better not take too long to get here!"

or

"Hey, you just interupted me doing my press-ups I was on 49999.5 and going for the record when you txt'd."

Totally over the top, so not threaterning, but takes it in the direction you want to go, ie fun and flirty

Thanks both really helpful replies, think thats maybe where was going wrong always trying to think of any question could to try get a response back but think good way to go put in a funny statement that could be a reply but doesnt need one.

Ended up txting her other night then on her last txt she asked a question, was at the gym when it was sent then had to eat and ended up replying 4 hours later which have to admit put question at the end myself. Didnt get anything back and havent heard from her in 4days now, know it can be good to leave some time between msgs but with a 4hr gap does she think i took the piss and thats why she left responding back??

did you say you were at the gym?

all depends on the girl.

I'd txt her today - something funny

Does that work if you are fat?

even more so

nah didnt mention why the reply was really late or apologize for it...just made fun of what she last said and asked how her day was....at the time would have bet she would have txt back so just think maybe the 4 hour delay was an unintentional bad move....any u guys found that leaving it too long can sometimes be a bad thing???....so thought be lame to send 2 txts in the row so completly left it since....what u reckon...send something in next few days short and funny and if nothing back off that one call it a day?

just after few exchanges today got thinking as well...obviously new to the pua way of thinking..with any text game if after few banterish/flirty exchanges she does ask some normal questions like how was ur day blah blah...would some of you just give a "normal" answer or always kind stick to some form of gameplan??

and if you send some lame shit they didnt reply to.

send the same exact text like 4 times. then on the 5th talk about how shitty your
phone is. that should definitely get you back in the game!