Is it good to be honest about how you feel about her in a relationship even if you haven't been together that long?

Well lets think about it.

Tell her and what is the worst that could happen?

She leaves you.

Don't tell her and what is the worst that could happen?

She leaves you.

Tell her and what is the best that could happen?

She tells you back and your relationship is concrete.

Don't tell her and the best thing that could happen?

Your relationship slowly grows into a concrete relationship over a longer period of time.

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Personally I'd wait for her to say anything like that first =)

I like you, i love you... everything I "something" you...

Let her do the first move ... If she doesnt tell you, she will show you somehow

To me thats a no go zone! The first my Girlfriend told me "I love you" after 4 month, I replied "im really sorry, but that creeps me out!". I've only been in Love once and I know how real love feels like and how much it hurts if it doesnt come true and it sill effects me once in a while. I can't lie to make some1 happy.

i like magnums reply, but it's also possible she doesn't give a shit

be honest to yourself first, don't aks anyone permission to do what you want.
Even if you tell her and she leaves you, you will learn a valuable lesson out of it - i even recommend people to make mistakes and if mistakes don't happen well that's ok to.

also question yourself what do i feel ? are you a honest straightforward person ?
if you feel like you aren't getting along well or not solid you should look at the fact on how long you're together.

actually fuck it ... im not going to tell you what you should do ... if you decide to tell her -im 100 % with you -and if you decide to not tell her -im with you 100%- as well.

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it doesnt goes about saying you love her
but by showing her

very good point

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Depends...

Do you want to get serious with this girl? If you have gone out only a couple of months since you made it official.. i would wait...

In my case though, i have only been with my GF for almost 2 months now..
Hahaha shit..

I told her i loved her after one week we have been exlusive.. crazy..

But we have had something going on for like 4 months but didnt made it exlusive with her yet cause i live 1500km away.. and we have been in touch for 1½ year though..

Still, after one week.. it was crazy..

What happened?

Well she was over joyed... really happy.. and she tells me she thinks about that day everyday.. Yet, when i told her, she said she needed some more time.. I just said okay.. And havent told her i love you since then.. ..But she thinks about it everyday and so on.. so im 100% sure next time i visit her.. she will tell me first....


Its also a problem with the understanding of the word "I love you"

In english you say i love you to friends, your wife, GF, your mom..
But in other language such as spanish, french and italian.. you say "Ti amo" Only to your GF / Wife!.. And so normally to immature relationship and families and friends you say "Ti voglio bene" which means "i like you"..


So its a question about culture too.. Where are you from?

Im from italy and i told her "ti amo" which is i love you, but the strong kind.. so...

But still.. I dont regret saying it and she loved it so.. I was lucky

But she drives me crazy and i have not regret anything..

sorry long reply

Why does it feel like Hobbit is the only one giving VALID advice for all the soon-to-become betas here.

Anyways, I don't know who said it, but always be (or act) a little more relaxed than her: feelings,txts,dates (if u do them,that is). You don't also have to spill every thought in your mind to her,why not just have passionate sex. And if there comes a time when all you can think about is her, and want to "express" your love or whatever, then CHILL out. Go play footie


-Peak