I didnt want to start a new thread about this but can anyone point me in the right direction? I need to learn how to respond to shit tests, especially "i have a bf" responses, and remember seeing a thread before but cant find it
Thanks in advance!

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Them mommas gonna hate and I love it, fuck 'em

you can say something like, i have two kids.
or..
what's his name? how about we call him for a drink?

Hey bro, PEEP THIS. I think your going to really enjoy it.

Found this bf destroyer, unfortunately I forgot the name of the person out there who wrote it, but my hat goes off to you!!

''I was at work one day working out after my break practising my eye contact between sets with this really hot girl near the dumbell rack.
I knew she knoticed me but it never bothered me because I had no intentions of acting on it. Well, I had to go over to get a set of dumbells for my next exercise, and as I got close to where she was....she SUDDENLY turned around and said ''I have a boyfriend''[/size] and turned around. Normally I woulda kinda just stood there all shocked and said nothing but, I guess all that mental training paid off.
Without even thinking or pausing the words just came out. I said '' Hey that's great I'm really happy for you.....(pause - and in a lower tone) I know this is probably a major accomplishment for you but to the REST of the world this is kind of normal, so you might not want to go around telling every stranger you see''

Then I just walked off with my weights to do my sets. 5mins later she comes over to me and apologizes and asks for my number. Turns out she didn't have a boyfriend but was just tired of being picked up by losers while she was trying to do a workout.''

HOW FUCKING GOOOOOOOOD IS THAT RESPONSE!?!?!?

Wow, be mindfucked just like me. Priveledge is yours, my friend

So true! Most of the times girls will say they have a bf even if they don't have one. But why do you think they are making that excuse anyway? I think there's a deeper reason for that, and I think it has to do with how we approach her and what signals we give out. This article does a good job at explaining what I'm saying. It presents a solution from a different perspective: http://www.attractioninstitute.org/deal ... -boyfriend

Hope you guys find it useful.

thanks for the help! and abs that article is pretty insightful

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Them mommas gonna hate and I love it, fuck 'em

Hey man, glad to be of help

Did you think i was chatting you up, haha (hopefully will get her to relax and take defences down), you cant just be nice these days (hopefully puts her on the back foot, makes her apologise/quantify) and there was me thinking we were just having a nice
conversation (a bit of NLP - telling them they are enjoying it).

Or is that a bit too much all in one sentence?
Alternatively you can just pick bits you like.

p.s. Abs, where you from? C.London by any chance?

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Tony T