Okey, you’ve been out sarging, opened a HB, had a couple of laughs with her and successful number closed her. The next time you get in touch with her, what’s the best strategy: calling or texting?

There are obvious pros and cons involving both.

Calling shows that you have balls. On the other side you might signal too much interest or give an impression of being the desperate stalker type. The risk of here not answering because she doesn’t recognize your number is also there. Leaving a voice message or texting after she doesn’t answer is totally lame.

Texting is less aggressive and pushy. On the other side it could give here the impression that you’re really an AFC that lack the balls to call her. I’ve dated girls that consider texting as the first second encounter to be so lame that they don’t bother to answer.

My personal experience is that it depends on the girl and the situation when you meet. So the question is: does anyone have a good general rule?

/Schultmeister

To be honest i would call. make a quick phone call and try to set up a day 2 or just talk fluff and a quick story to dhv and hang up. then next time txt her. its a lot better to call to show that you guys can talk comfortably

I would say call every time.

The best time to call would be right after another date. I have had a lot of success on calls using this strategy. I am almost always in a positive state after a date. I try to call as many girls as I can after a date busting their balls, even telling them I was out with another chica and as I enjoyed myself so much they are now going to be demoted to stalkee no.7. That sort of thing.

Have fun with it. Always call when you are in a good mood and up for a laugh.