so i met this girl in real life and hit it off like crazy once i got home and chatted with her. next day she calls me a player and i blow it off like a joke. next day after that i initiate chat with her because she always contacted me first she does nothing but stupid ass "hahahahah" "yes" "no"

there was nothing to hook off of and it felt like i was interrogating her because i could hardly get emotion out of her even after giving a neg. so i just said "well this is boring im going to bed, later"

right choice? or should i have played it off differently? im 17 and shes 16

today has been the only day were she wasn't being manipulated in the palm of my hand because she wasnt cooperating.

this is why i think online pua stuff is kinda lame -_-

It is dude. But people are so fucking disconnected in this day and age it's the harsh reality of the future. Technology is pushing us further apart and people don't like to communicate as much in person or are just too fucking lazy. Online is the WORST kind of pua even if you are good at it.

Ok, I would say be very wary of any real life encounter switching over to online. To me it always seems like a backward step - better than nothing though.

I think you did right with your chat. Sadly there are lots of girls who are just looking for attention. I specifically do NOT chat with girls/women as I think it's a dead end.

The best thing about online game in my opinion is that it forces you to qualify girls better as there are sooo many crap things (fake profiles, unreliable profiles, descriptions and pictures, scams, reluctant to meet types and those that just want to chat...)

One word answers to chat are a typical indication she's just playing games - at best she's shy or plain lazy - do you really want to be with someone like that?

If you persist and have a structure to your online game so you do not get sucked into endless mails and chats it can be pretty rewarding.

yah talked this over with my other pua friends at school they said i did the right thing. if she really cares what i think she'll attempt to redeem herself. i guess this was just experience then, no matter how little i gained from it

i would say, never move from real life to online, it is like moving backward, dont chat to her online again, or if you have to, make it so simple and brief, 5 minutes is enough, and try to be so funny in those 5 minutes, always tell story about how fun u had while was out, then you are busy and leave her. later if she is interested she will hint that online chatting is not enough, then it will be ur turn to move it forward for something better, good luck

here's my method. This can apply to online or texting.


Easy now. I wouldn't want your fingers to get tired from typing all that.

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being called a player = solid interest