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PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 12:25 am 
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I already asked question before about her.. but now it gets to the point where i feel like nothing moves but im a complete loser.
I studied math with her today, everything seemed fine.. then we started walking and she was going towards the buses. i said "you know, its been on my mind the whole weekend, i was thinking about us, and i thought, i want it to be more then hanging out after class.. what do you think?"
her: "well.. i dunno.. maybe... i just want to take it slow.."
me: "thats fine, im not rushing anywhere.. all i want is dinner with you"
her: "okay.."
-then we set up the date

I drove her home (my willing.. she said that i dont have to and she would feel bad but i said that her notebook is getting a ride and if she wants she can join)
when we got there, i didnt see her mom's car which means the whole house is hers.
she gave me a hug and turns around to get out of the car.. i said "no kiss goodbye?"
she turns around give me a kiss on the chick and gets out..
then i said this: "just so you know, i have a rule, i dont usually have sex with women on the first day" (something along the lines to make her comfortable)
she goes: "obviously.."
i turn off the car and get out too and as i do this i say "hey i want to ask you something.."
her: "what.. where are you going.. whats your question?"
me: "you arent going to show me around the house?"
her : "no my house is messy, next time.."
me: (after thinking to myself) "okay thats fine, i respect that.. come give me a kiss then"
her: -walking around the car towards me and said "i will give you a hug" -and she does and then pce..

what am i doing wrong?


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 12:38 am 
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i think every line you did was a miss LOL. She wasnt interested from the beggining. You tried to go inside her house... without even any body escalation. your lines were weird.. and too strong, from what i could tell she is a shy nice and friendly girl. If you want to be with her, which for all extensive purposes prolly wont happen, Be yourself.. not a guy who uses canned routines, which by the way suck. It seems like your using lines to get what you really want to do with her... but the fact is most pick up lines and snappy comebacks arent made to make the girl some hypnotized person.. their there for her comfort and to break the ice.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 12:52 am 
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i think every line you did was a miss LOL. She wasnt interested from the beggining. You tried to go inside her house... without even any body escalation. your lines were weird.. and too strong, from what i could tell she is a shy nice and friendly girl. If you want to be with her, which for all extensive purposes prolly wont happen, Be yourself.. not a guy who uses canned routines, which by the way suck. It seems like your using lines to get what you really want to do with her... but the fact is most pick up lines and snappy comebacks arent made to make the girl some hypnotized person.. their there for her comfort and to break the ice.
thats the problem, i dont use lines nor memorize anything ahead, im just being myself which i guess sucks. wow i feel like she is using me as a tutor and free rides even though she never asks for it..

btw. i forgot to mention that she texted me something along the line.. "tnx for the ride and tutoring me" i never replied.. and dont think i want to.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 1:05 am 
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Retread your steps dude. This whole thing smacks of having no game whatsoever.

Hang out with her, build comfort, keep kino strong , use push pull and if you want to use routines try something like the Cube.

Keep practising bro, but have in mind where you want it to lead. If you go into this and be yourself, without any game experience, your going to be LJBF


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 2:21 am 
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Retread your steps dude. This whole thing smacks of having no game whatsoever.

Hang out with her, build comfort, keep kino strong , use push pull and if you want to use routines try something like the Cube.

Keep practising bro, but have in mind where you want it to lead. If you go into this and be yourself, without any game experience, your going to be LJBF
i have game and confidence when it comes to picking up chicks number.. and i can set up a date and everything.. but i feel like i dont have this kino thing and i have no time sit and read about it..

the problem is that this girl gives me the vibe that she is interested, then she wants it to be slow, but the she agrees for dinner with me, then flakes, then agrees for a different day.. she always agrees to hang out after class which makes me feel now like she is waiting for me to offer her a ride and/or tutor her math for a bit. my buddy said "she expects it.. like the sun raises every morning, she knows you will do it again and again without asking for it"
what am i supposed to do next..


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 5:00 am 
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i think you were ok up untill you got out the car, the asking to come inside seemed a lil needy, and she seen through that by asking where are you going, next time just act like you were going to check your tire pressure or something to throw her off. you were running and she was walking, just take it slower..hard i know cuz i f'd up this weekend in a similar fashion but remember unless you feel sexual tension between you and her, "slow and steady" is better

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 4:58 pm 
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I agree with Venom here, I think all of your lines just succeeded in making her more uncomfortable. She said she wants to take it slow, and you ask her to show you around her house when noone is home, after holding her notebook hostage to drive her home? Perhaps listen to what she is saying and adjust your lines accordingly. I like what you did with the 'all I want is dinner with you'... why try to push it further from there and creep her out?

Anyways, I think you just need to take it a bit easier and not try to force everything on her right away... just chill out a bit, continue hanging out, building attraction, hopefully get on that dinner date. Obviously I don't know her that well, but sShe doesn't seem like the kind of girl that is necessarily responding to your VERY direct approach...


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