Hey Guys.. Met a dime piece in a bar 2 weeks ago Italian/cuban 22 yrs old kissed closed within 30 mins brought her back to my place within 3 hours extremely hot and heavy intense mutual physical attraction.. no sex but heavy petting and a blow job.. could have had sex but for some reason I didn't push it ( I know big mistake) I text her next night.. I get this from her- "had an awesome time. we def have chemistry but I'm kinda talking to someone right now and I didn't tell you I'm sorry but last night we just clicked and it took me by surprise. I don't know if we can pursue anything but I also don't want to give a good thing up. And I'm also kind of afraid that I wont be able to control myself with you." Ok so I play it cool game her make plans for dinner, she flakes, a week goes by after a few unanswered texts I get a random call from her one night. " I'm so sorry been meaning to call you back I've been busy and I'm also confused I like you but I have this guy I'm still kinda seeing blah blah blah.." so i game her a lil and get her to invite me out the next day shes working as a coors light girl for an hour at this local bar, she tells me to come by meet her and after shes done she can hang out for some drinks.. So fast forward next night I meet her we hang out shes with her friends I gain there acceptance we drink all night, a lot of kino etc etc. I drive her home we end up fucking in my car.. and when i say fucking i mean intense hair pulling, ass slapping, her calling me daddy good fucking sex! this girl was a freak she came 3 times we do the whole cuddle thing afterwards . talked about future hanging out etc etc. (yes I'm starting to cop feelings for this one) . - NEXT MORNING I get a text that reads.. " I'm so sorry last night was a mistake your a great guy I just cant do this right now with my situation I had a great time and thank you I'm sorry I'm a headcase, don't call me or text me, ill reach out to you when my situation changes... I'm so sorry..." Again I play it cool and tell her I'm disappointed but its cool to call me sometime. MY BROTHERS!! HELP HOW DO I PULL THIS ONE BACK!! and FYI its comfirmed there is a guy she is talking to so no that's not made up.. I'm thinking she has hardcore buyers remorse and feels guilty but how do I pull this one back sex was amazing!!! thanks in advance!

Try meeting up with her and her lover guy, show him up or on the other hand you can just move on, having had a good run.

your call man, not that much detail about her or your relationship. whats her rating?

Oh you have a boyfreind? want another one..

She told me that they were just "talking" with no title.. I think its more than that though did a quick facebook search on her (yah i know a little stalkerish! but knowlege is power) anyway her main default pic is of her and this dude.. actually kind of resembles me lol.. anyway this girl is def a 8.5 rating. The thing with her is I'm very good with words.. nlp/framing/shaping and everything I say to her she eats up and sways her.. hence why she prob told me to not call or text until she sees what happens with this guy. I told her things like "I don't want to take you away from anyone, I just want to give you the opportunity to meet someone better, because that's what you deserve" I was able to frame her thinking to the point were she told me on the night of sex " I don't know why but I just trust you so much and it feels good to be with you." she ate it right up. - My only course of action I feel is to throw her a text in two weeks playing on the line that "the only mistake is for us to not talk again, and for two people to have an attraction were they both lose control only happens once in a while.. blah blah blah." she if she bites again. Maybe play off the forbidden love angle..?? I dunno Would reaching out to her again throw me in the creepy desperate zone.. or is it a good possibility she will bite?? Thanks guys!!

PS a friend of mine who is good with women told me to give a week and instead of throwing up on her and leaving her a msg about how it would be a mistake to not talk again etc etc. just to throw her a simple text.. "Missing u and that beautiful smile." and seeing if she bites - To me that sounds sorta AFC but I dunno. I know the reason she said not to call or text is because she knows I have an influence on her and she has feelings for me.

Bump... Hey guys gonna wait a week and just throw her a text- "The only mistake would be us never talking again and if what happened was wrong then fuck I don't wanna be right." any objections pleease let me know!

It sounds like she gamed you. I get the impression she got exactly what she wanted and positioned you to be her booty call as the need arises. Not the worst case scenario, (if you don't mind sharing,) but it doesn't sound like you have the reigns here. I personally veto your text because it reinforces that she has all the control, but it's probably too late for that. If you're going to text again, you should text something that has a point, like asking her on a legit date, or a visit to your house for another trifecta. Just start treating her like a girlfriend, booty call, whatever you're going for and maybe magic will happen. Good luck.

Very good point.. I'm usually a very good judge of reading situations.. I felt like I had this girl.. especially while together she hung on me and was saying things that normally if it was a girl i wasn't into i would be creeped out about, she admitted to mutual feeling of a wierd attraction and trust she couldn't explain. The sex was intense and mutually gratifying. I think the attraction the feeling is there she just has this guilty conscience and knows she cant control herself with me. gonna give it a shot because realistically what do I have to lose? if She doesn't bite, I'll lick my wounds and move on.