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A girl who is training to be the instructor at the course I was taking helped me fax some paperwork out using her office, so a day later I went up to her thanked her for helping me out and said I would like to repay her and take her out and buy her a drink, she agreed.
Couple days later I took her on a date, we went to a comedy club, and then went to a Jazz lounge (in Vegas) then to Toby Keith bar at Harris.
I picked her up drove and things started it off ok. She seemed pretty shy so I tried to open her up with some fluff. We got to the comedy show and she was sort of into it, did some forced laughing and after the show said she liked it even though she really didn't IMO. I paid for the show and drinks (yeah I know AFC)
After the show we went to the Jazz lounge. The table we went to had chairs on one side and a bench on the other. I sat on the bench and asked her to sit next to me, she sad maybe later. We sat there for a good hour and a half with not much conversation and a few comments. I tried getting her to dance, she didn't want to. I also noticed she was texting a few times while there. Wow are you kidding me? We ordered a few drinks and an appetizer. She ended up paying there. After our food arrived I asked her again if she wanted to sit, she finally agreed and sat next to me. A lounge photographer came by and asked to take a picture of us, I said let’s do it. I put my arm around her ass and had my hand on her right leg. After the picture she put some distance between us discreetly. We got up after a while and went across the street.
We went into Toby Keith bar at Harris and I said lets go walk around to find a good spot. As we were walking she got really tense and said, oh my God there is a guy over there from the office. She was really embarrassed for seeing him there. He was a dude that looked better than me and wearing a cowboy hat (peackocking) and was talking to a pretty attractive 8. I asked my date to dance and she denied saying she didnt like to dance, I dragged her like a caveman to the dance floor and put some moves on her. At the end of the dance I leaned in and gave her a peck on the cheek.
We went back to our spot and that guy she knew walked over and basically put his back to me as he was talking to her. I was expecting her to introduce me to him but she didn't and was smiling at him at forgot I was standing there. Instead of a chump I was already feeling I just left and went to the pisser. I came back and instead of walking back to my chump spot next to them I walked over to the bar to order a drink. I waited because natural reaction of bartenders is to ignore a dude at a bar trying to buy a drink. So after waiting there for a little bit I walked back to my date, at that exact time dip shit walked away. She had a big smile on her face and said oh wait where did you go I was going to introduce you to him then you weren’t there. I call bs on that because I stood there behind them for about 5 minutes. She then proceeded to talk about him. She told me that the girl he was talking to was interested in him and that he wasn’t. My date then told him that he should give her his number. I think she wsa dreaming that she was the other girl he was talking to lol.
Either way my mood changed and I think she picked up on that. I said lets go find a table to sit at, which we did. We sat down and we basically talked about a few things, which were mostly boring. I had a feeling she was not into me but it was mostly from my lack of keeping things interesting. Most of the conversation was one sided anyways and that was from me. I felt like I was doing all the work talking on the date. I asked her if she wanted to do anything else and she said I don't know what do you want to do. I told her I wanted to go back to her place to hang out. I realize that was pretty aggressive approach when she wasn't even showing me IOIs but I went for the kill. Then I joked and sad I would even give her a free dance show. Topless of course not full nude. She laughed but said she would fall asleep if we went back so that door was closed. I got really bored really quick and said well I can take you home if you’d like. She said ok.
Trip home was boring I was giving her a cold shoulder had the music turned up to a level of a natural conversation. We said a few things and when I got to her place I was leaning in on the console to give her a kiss, but obviously she wasn't going to have none of that. She was reaching for the handle so quick that I thought she was going to piss her pants. She wasn’t even looking at me until she got out of the car. She said text me when you get home.
I came home texted her and never got a response.
Next day she said thanks for the comedy show, she had fun and was really tired and crashed as soon as she got home.
I texted back, and said: I am glad I cured her insomnia and that I at least got up this morning without a hangover. I meant that as a joke. That was it never got a text back from her.
So rip me apart. My first officially date since I’ve been separated from my X Wife. I know I am only an AFC right now. Even I realized a few things looking back that I fucked up on. First I was treating her in some ways like my X wife by being way to accommodating to her. I didn't even look at other girls to throw her of a little.
When she saw that guy at the bar that she knew it seemed like the highlight of her night. I could have turned the game on her and went to a beautiful girl in her view and asked her to help me make my date jealous by having a chat with me.
Who know that might have worked on that person as well and could have been actually been picking up my accomplice.
Either way a long post, I just had to get all the details out to see how the train wreck got to where it did. Bottom line I opened with her (success) my mid with her the date started strong then fizzled, and my close (what close) did not exist.
Give me your opinions on what I did wrong. Thanks
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