I have a quick question. I'm working on setting up a date (it's semi-confirmed, just need to come up with a time and firm confirmation) on Sunday to go ice skating with an HB9 I've been talking to, through a mutual friend, for the past couple of days. This will potentially be the first time we'll meet up one-on-one (she's been throwing IOIs at me so I know there's interest) and as I was talking to my mutual friend, she suggested that she and one more friend (a girl that HB9 doesn't know) to come with to lessen the pressure on HB9. I didn't commit to anything and the ball is in my court, but our mutual friend is the one that made the introduction between me and HB9, so she's on my side. As for the other friend, the girl that HB9 doesn't know, she wouldn't pose as a problem.

I still stand by doing this one-on-one but I'm just wondering if perhaps making it a group meet-up will, overall, make things easier for me in the sense that me and HB9 have a mutual friend that will subtlety promote the idea of us linking up and what not (basically, pumping up my social proof)?

Thoughts? When I do call HB9, what should my plan of attack be to make sure she commits to a firm time?

Don't bring another girl along for your date. This is a bad idea. You've already had that interaction. There aren't other people around while you're talking on the phone with her. She's interested. Take her on a real date. One on one will be easier for you to get close with her and escalate instead of worrying about other parties. You want her to have a good time and not babysit anyone else.

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