Don't answer, don't reply, don't check up on her on facebook

Listen to redrooster man, leave this bitch alone, after all this i could never go out with her now. She's being a cockblock aswell. keep away man, keep things real, move on to some other chicks and remember you are the prize, sorry man but she is trying to take you for a ride and unless you give her the cold shoulder, PERMANENTLY, your going to suffer.

She is using you for validation, its that simple. Also about her ex-boyfriend I suggest you immediately emulate the bad qualities of him that she brings up etc... Quickly mimic the bad way her ex treated her and watch her build attraction for you. It's something I emulated when I first started gaming my ex-girlfriend in my social group. Her ex would always ignore her sometimes in middle of conversations, and I remember how funny it was when I would stop paying attention in middle of her sentences etc... Just find some annoying things that drive her crazy about her ex-boyfriend, whatever is negative is usually positive.

You are in the friend-zone sadly and you got a lot of work for you to switch things around.

Thanks a lot for the replies guys! Last night, she texted me as I said in my last post, I only replied with one word answers, and I think she got pissed and said: your weird..wtv. Im fine thanks.

I said: wow real nice of you to say.
Then: what u doing?
she: replied what she was doing
I never answered back.

So I'm going to ignore her for a while, just like her ex's did. see how she feels now.
Thanks again guys.

Please, drop her. ComPLETELY ignore her. If she texts you in 2 weeks to a month and realizes she lost you actually escalate if the iron's hot.

You are really messed up over this girl. She wants attention and know how to play you so well. SHE IS USING YOU. and is starting to sound like not the kind of girl I would want to be around as a friend let a lone a lover.

Here is what is going on

She :says something looking for a reponse:
You :don't give her the validation she is after:
She :says something to provoke you:
You :fall for this like an AFC:

She wins and you loose... she wanted attention and you gave it to her (if she can't have love, hate is the next best thing for many people - it's true there are some messed up people)


I know it is hard - be strong.

Tell us what your ideal situation is going to be?

You also have to remember is that with this girl is probably telling her friends all about you (believe me they do this espeically this sort of girl who seems to want attention) and how she gets you to do stuff. So if you play it cool and really ignore her (NO REPLIES WHAT SO EVER) you are going to become attractive to the other girls who are going to see you as hot... on the otherside if you carry on the way do are, the other girls are going to see you as weak.

Be strong, just openly ignore (just don't even look at her, get near her, don't be in the same room as her, walk away from her, don't answer her calls/text/emails) and I bet you £20 you will have one of her friends ask you out within a month. (PM me in one month's time to collect)

Thanks a lot for the replies guys. So here's the thing, I haven't texted or spoken to her since last week. This weekend she was writing on her msn how : no use wasting your time on somebody that doesn't want your time . Guess she was talking about me, but I didn't give a damn.
Today in school, I was sitting down, I saw her walking with this guy that is in some of my classes, and she looks at me and just ignored me completely. I'm not going to lie, I felt real bad and felt played big time. I was angry, so I texted her: thanks for not saying hi. She never replied. I blocked her on msn and everything. She saw me again later, and ignored me again, that plain out hurt me. That was the last straw, that really wasn't cool. I don't know if I should confront her, like face to face, not text? Cause that was like plain mean.

> so I texted her: thanks for not saying hi.

You felt for it again. NOW you're the looser.

To regain your self-esteem: I suggest you play cool. Act like nothing happened. Smile at her just like you would smile at any other girl. When she gives you a weird look or ignores you, look confused and then just smile, you're not the one being an asshole. Do not try to contact her.

If she comes back trying for your approval, neg her about being impolite. She is not worthy of you. NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!

Again: Do not try to contact her.

Now its time to be yourself and get her out of your head and start gaming other girls, if you see this girl. Don't even give her a response.. Act like your kool and everythings good, have a happy face too, then she will sooner or later start wondering, where's he been, what's he up to? Is he ok? What's new? Etc.

Be strong, take it in your stride- this stuff can hurt and the best way like Cheolios says "go game some other women"

just remember how you played it this time and what happened, learn from that. We learn best from the stuff that goes wrong, and it happens to everyone at some stage