I have been in a wheelchair all my life and I have been a little unsure of myself most of my life because people sometimes treat me different because of my chair or stare alot. My question is, does being in a wheelchair change the way I would go about picking up a girl or is it the same regardless. Thanks for your time.

RollinMack

Well, i think it will be different.
But not much.

Approach and a few first minutes may be filled with tension...
But, if you do your thing right, it should be pretty much the same once they relax, and more important, when YOU relax.

Let's hear what do the pros think?

Haha I wasn't gonna respond, but the fact that you are confident enough and have the sense of humor to call yourself RollinMack makes me want to help out.

Honestly I have no idea how a wheelchair would affect the game. You should find out for yourself. Head out and see what happens. If you are new to sarging write down some of the routies/openers/negs you see listed here and commit them to memory. Then use them with sets and see how they work for you.

Yes you are going to be at a disadvantage in some areas, but this could actually help in other areas.

You have an instant topic of conversation no matter where you are if you feel comfortable talking about it and can figure out a way to DHV it. (I don't know what happened so I don't want to guess, but tell your story in a way that shows your strength)

You never ever have to worry about someone threatening you in set. I can't tell you how many times I've almost gotten into a fight cuz some big asshole was shot down by the girl I'm now talking to. It sucks. Everyone looks like pig-heads and pig-heads don't get the girls worth getting. No matter how much of a jackass someone is they never challenge someone in a wheelchair to a fight.

Your confidence will truly affect them. If you seem confident in yourself than women will accept that and engage you. While most people may feel sympathy for someone in a wheel chair you can transcend that by showing self-worth and confidence. The right women will respond to that and be totally focused on what you say or do next.

Finally. You have easy kino escalation. "You want to sit on my lap don't you." Or something along those lines. As long as you say this confidently and with a twist of humor the girls will laugh and be into you whether they sit or not.

If you have any other questions or concerns lemme know. I'd be glad to help out.

Lexus,

Thank you so much for your input I appreciate it very much. All the things you said made alot of sense. I have played sports for a long time so I am fairly confident in myself I just dont want people to prejudge me before they know me. I guess some of my options as far as women go may be a little limited because the women would have to be open to seeing me as more then a friend in the first place I would imagine. I think it might be difficult for me to get the really gorgeous women that is really into her looks. What do you think? I think it is funny alot of times after I get talking to some women one of the first things they ask me is if I can get it up. lol Which I can by the way, quite well I might add. lol Thanks again for your input.

RollinMack

Like Lexus said its there's ups and downs. Its great for AMOGing because if they even look at you wrong you have a ton of things you can say that are funny, but that also make everyone around devalue the guy for being a dick to a guy in a wheelchair.

Mack-daddy no problem man. Glad I could help. And truthfully don't gimme this...
I'll tell you the God's honest truth and any PUA will back me up. Your limitations with women are self made. If you look at a woman and say to yourself "She's out of my league." Then she is. Plain and simple. But if you confidently approach and engage her then who knows. There are no limitations in picking up women. If you know that you are a fun, unigue, talented and apparently well-equipped dude than she will pick up on it.

It's a stupid movie cliche but it fits here.

"Any man can sweep any woman off her feet...he just needs the right broom."

You'll find that the entire world, not just women, will react differently to you when you adopt a positive and confident outlook on things. You seem like a confident guy just from your posts so I'm sure you know or can easily figure out what I'm talking about.

I have seen some guys in wheelchairs that were much less attractive than me (and I'm not bad looking, but I don't consider myself to be hot or anything) with 9s and 10s and at the time I didn't think they were in my league. Like Lexus said (I'm kinda getting tired of giving this guy props all the time, hehe jk) the only limitations are self made.

Thanks again Rye Lee and Lexus for all your great information. Most of what was said I thought was true but I wanted to get reinforcement from people that have experience. If I ever have any questions in the future I definately know who to come to.

RollinMack

confidence is everything man and it looks like you have it.. also, another good one to use instead of telling them they want to sit in your lap is.

YOU: I know that look
HB: what?
YOU: you're imagining how i'd look as a recliner in your living room

cheesy but it'll get a lot of good responses... my grandpa used it when he was in a wheelchair after an injury... it was quite a riot

RollinMack, have you seen the movie shallow hal? if you have you would know the the wheelchair guy gets a ton of girls... you just have to be confident and alpha. Just be like the wheelchair guy from shallow hal and you will do fine

Thank you my friends I appreciate the imput. I did see the movie shallow hal. I forgot about the guy in the wheelchair. That is a good point.

RollinMack