my girlfriend CONSTANTLY every day, multiple times a day, jokingly talks about hooking up with my friends..what would you do if your gf did this? even though it is jokingly it bothers me but I dont let her know that it does..

Dude, if she is already talking about it, she is thinking about it. Hell, it may have already happened. Hope you have some loyal buddies.

If its her way of seeing you getting jealous (which is a shit-test) then its working and you don't need to put up with this. Tell her if she says it one more time, it is over between you two...mean it and walk out on her and don't turn back. You are acting all needy by putting up with it.

If you really value the relationship, you just don't say crap like that. And I hope she understands that. If not, she isn't the one for you.

Best,

J-Dub

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Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

I know for a fact that she hasnt done it yet because she lives kinda far away so the only times she has seen them has been with me and I know my dudes wouldnt do that to me anyway..she is 100% joking around when saying it but it still annoys me but I feel like if I do tell her its kinda AFC

hobbit is spot on..

Being and feeling like Alpha.. then the things you do wont be afc..

You can game WoW and cry over Pretty woman. and be alpha...

Listen, just tell her it's annoying you, and that it makes her look unattractive...
If she says "so what?" Well dude, she is taking control.. she thinks she is some queen.. she needs to know who is in charge..

Tell her.. man..

Say what you want to say...be a man...

Look her dead in the eye and in calm voice say "thats not funny its actually very disrespectful" she will prob laugh and say she is just joking and then you say "I dont find it funny at all so stop"

She will then either say sorry and stop or she will shit test you even more and try to make you feel bad or look bad....thats when you say somthing like "If you dont understand why that would bother me then you have the issue not me and mabey we should re evaluate out relationship because clearly I have more respect for you then you have for me...I wouldnt joke about sleeping with your friends".

then end it! stay calm and just say you need time alone you dont want to talk to her right now....wait it out and she will say sorry.

stay calm, be a man, and speak your mind....and dont blaber on like a fool...make your point and get out.

follow my plan trust me it will work! if she doesnt say sorry and she leaves you (prob wont happen) but if she does then who gives a shit? you stood up for your self and you dont want to be with a women like that any way.

She is shit testing you and the more you let her get away with the more you fail

ok well I told her a\and it seemed like it worked, she said she would stopp..but would you guys be annoyed by your girlfriend if she did that to you?

Absolutely. I think the guys above made it pretty clear that talk like that is disrespectful and immature on her part.

ok well this has come up again..my gf and her friends posted a video on my friends facebook wall and at the end of it she says i cant wait to hook up with you in bahamas, during spring break..she is joking but i dont know what to do anymore, i made it clear to her that its disrespectful and i dont like when she does it and now this, what would you guys do at this point after talking to her about this multiple times..

seriously? thats what you would do? she is 100% kidding around though

I want to tell you what i think about your relationship with her but Hobbit did it perfecly...

Break up, if she want to keep you and that she was only joking she will come back to apologize

if not, she was a slut who wanted to hook up your friends...



sry man but she is asking for it... find another girl and kick your ''One-it-is syndrome''...




********** At this point, she is almost telling you, I will try to fuck other guy while being with you. And if she do, she will only have to tell you;

-''I told you and you did nothing''
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Breaking up with her is your only option, honestly.

Only two months ago you told her to stop saying such things. You stated clearly that it bothers you. She likes to play with you man. She thinks that you won't break up with her whatever (not cheat and such stuff ofc) she does!

Get away from this chick, there are others;)

I told myself I wasn't gonna post in another trappinu's girlfriend thread, but that was gold, my friend.

As for the situation, I don't mean to come off as harsh, but: seriously, why are you still with this girl? Stop posting about it, break up with her, and find a new one... or ten. Things end, relationships end, life ends. Accept this, and you'll be happier for it.

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Breaking up with her doesn't necessarily mean the Relationship HAS to end right there.

But you told her you didn't like it when she did it, it was disrespectful. SHE IS CHOOSING TO DISRESPECT YOU, no matter how much of a 'joke' she makes it out to be, she KNOWS WHAT SHE IS DOING.

IT IS A TEST.

Do not get angry. Do not get emotional. Wait until your head is clear, tell her what she's doing is wrong, she knows you don't like it, and FOLLOW THROUGH WITH YOUR WORD - if you said to her before you'd break-up with her if she did it, then DO IT. Break up with her. She will then realise she was wrong. She will most likely apologise. She will think more of you as a man, even if you don't get back together, she will respect you more - and you will be able to respect yourself more. She will most likely be attracted to you again, apologise, and stop the behaviour. If not, she isn't worth keeping around anyway because she'll continue to make you feel like shit + disrespect you.

I'd get rid of her man, see what he response is then, it may be hard it's either that or be taken for a mug. What she's doing seriously shows lack of respect towards you, and your meant to be her boyfriend, says it all really.