Alright... still got anxiety problems...

Now I have more of a grip on everything tho, so well see how it turns out this time.

Situation is this: look-wise, wittiness, game & style wise... I got shit down in my opinion, not to toot my own horn of course.

But NONE of that gets used because I put up this wall when it comes to social situations....

I have a few instances... where a chick may have slipped threw the cracks, & got me to open up.. & everytime I do... the results are always really good... like..I bumped into a chick I met on myspace at the mall n since we already spoke there wasent really any tension... n later on the phone she was telling me how good I looked & w/e...

& that's constantly happening to me... like... super hot chicks open up like I'm the hot one lol... but its tourture cuz I can't use it.

So yeah... I think my game is decent but can't really find out till I stop holding back. & what really sucks is... I think my whole sense of humour n everything is perfect, I think of really crazy shit on the fly sometimes... but in social situations my head just fogs up & my usually real funny comments turn into little.. Attempts that don't even hit right cuz I don't commit to them..

Yea if u haven't noticed I'm analytical as hell, that's prob. part of the problem too.

Anyways, help.

Yeah man, I feel the exact same way, once I actually find a way to talk to a girl it actually goes very well.
Just... I have trouble opening them because I overthink

don't overthink it man its a process