i suck at opening. i jus tnever know what to say to open. it's not that im scared i just don't know wut to say. i hate the "did you see that fightoutside" openers. i want soemthing orignal that i can use, rather im at school, work, the bar, or grocery store

Hey! Whats up?

Look for a e-book called the Art of Approach. Magic Bullets is a good one that may help, too.

Another thing is learn to be an outgoing person. Get in the habit of just starting conversation with strangers. After a while opening will be no biggie.

Look into a program called Demonic Confidence, its really good for uping your approach game.

Dude!

You already got an opener "Hey, i really suck at opening"

And then go from then

My openers are whatever comes in my head really, regradless how stupid it is.

You can try one of my favorite openers.

"Hi, Im just going around meeting new people."

but what about the whole DHV, and shutting down the bitch sheild? i don't want the girl to be like oh great a creep. these are rookie questions to be asking. because i canclose no problem. i just need better openings

"Hi, I'm {>Insert name here<} *Shakes hand*, I just thought I would introduce myself because you seem like a good person to have a conversation with."


Dont interview her, thats basically wat i did, it failed hardcorious, and they will just stand there not being pleased, and uncomfortable, (i didnt use this exact opener, but i used another one, but didnt transition properly).

Be like "So, let me tell you abit about myself {>insert life story here xD<}"
Then also ask her for her name is she doesnt give it to you, or be like, "It was great meeting you {>insert her name here, if you forget after she told you at the start, your fucked (dw i have this problem also)<}, I would love to continue this conversation, but I have to go (have other plans, meeting someone, wateva floats ur boat), how about we catch up sometime soon..."

Pull out your phone, give it to her...

If you do it right, it wont fail.
(Obviously lol)

Field Tested.


Good luck :}

Yeah a mistake i made, ir felt like i was interviewing them. Talk to them as if you were talking to your best friend. You will notice the difference!

lol this is actually a really good opener im gonna try that sometime

check out this post i made..this could be used at any place ..doesnt matter weather u suck at opening or not ..as long as you could talk to your mom you could talk to anyone
perfect-opener-for-a-two-set-vt60096.html

Hey dude... im new to this site... so im not even sure if what im replying to is even still relevant ! lol ummm to say basically... i know where youre coming from with most of the canned material... and yes material you make up will obviously come out smoother... My friend and I pull ideas from a number of different situations... come up with new ones and field test them... obviously we failed a few times... but if you continue to plug away and be determined it will yeild FANTASTIC results ! have you read any articles on the morality of game ? it helped me an awful lot... but hey im no MPUA... so by all means keep asking chances are one of us will say what you need to hear lol PM me if you need to know anything or visit this great site i found !



Sharky

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try this one (with a wing is best):

'hi, me and my friend (gesture at at yourself and then wing) are trying to come up with the ultimate pickup line! any ideas?'

if she gives you a cheesy, one liner look extremely interested and then immediately throw it back at her.

when it doesn't work say: 'it doesn't work! youre terrible at this! lets try again...'
... and so on...

hope that helps,

Phoenix

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a morning of awkwardness is always better than a night of loneliness.

Hah I like what Phoenix said right there. Just use your environment to your advantage. Notice something about her that you can playfully tease her about.