So i went on a first date with a girl 2 days ago (Monday). It seemed to go well (I think she was giving me "f-me eyes" for a long time, but couldn't get her back to my place at the end of the night for whatever reason.

I figured I'd wait to see if she contacts me to see if she's interested. Worked like a charm. The next evening (Tuesday) she texted me right after work. We shot a few texts up and back and made plans for a movie and pancakes at my place for Friday.

So should I text her or contact her in anyway before Friday evening? 3 days seems like a long time to go with no contact. Am I wrong? I also don't want to fuck anything up by sending a bad text.

Texting is always a good idea between dates. I creates familiarity between one another and makes it more comfortable to engage in a phone call conversation if it's necessary.

The last thing you want to do is make it akward when communication does occur, so keep it regular without seeming obssesive.

Usually it'll be pretty obvious if she is looking for a reply to her last text or not.

Don't be affraid to call her either, if you've already 'shot a few texts back and forth'. Calling her shows that you're confident or at least interested enough in her to face the possibility of rejection. If it's simply a matter of confidence, work on this. It won't get any easier unless you actually start calling girls. Maybe call another female that is just a friend before hand (regarding anything) just to get you in that 'comfort zone'.

As for fucking up by saying the wrong thing; the phone call or text isn't your first impression. You already made that when you got her number and during the date, so don't worry that you won't say just the right thing. That said, think about what you want to say. Think about what you talked about (more importantly, what she talked about) when you met her.

RE1DY

Thanks. I sent some flirting texts, we had a good conversation, and I did some escalation, which she seemed to be into. Now it feels so much more comfortable to meet up tomorrow.

Sounds like your ontop of it. At this point you don't really need to impress her as such, but just not screw up before you next meet. It doesn't sound as though you need to call her at this point either because texting appears to be a suitable means of communication that your both comfortable with. Let me know how it all goes.
RE1DY
P.S (Normally i wouldn't ask, but some rep wouldn't hurt either, cos i'm just starting but eventually would like to develop into a serious PUA)

I'm not going to say "texting is bad." It's really a matter of personal preference.

I prefer to setup a date or day2 via phone call. It's more personal than a text. I usually won't text unless one of us is in a situation in which talking is a chore.

Most of what you're saying is based on how you say it and not what you say. Your voice inflection plays a huge role in this. Texts can often be misinterpreted.

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