Hello everyone.

I have been lurking this forum for some time, and first of all, I just want to say thanks to everyone for contributing to this forum. This is a goldmine for newbies like me. I kinda feel worried because this forum is so great, and that I could get some heavy competition from other guys.

Anyway, here is my deal. I have met a nice 8, and I think she is testing me out quite seriously, or even worse, she could be a female player...

The story goes like this:

I met this girl at a new year's party. We had a laugh, talked about many things, and I did some kino, as far as I can tell she was attracted to me. She was always trying to get my attention when I was talking with other girls and guys, touching me, etc and when I left, she gave me a kiss on the cheek.

But after the party, I had to leave the city for 2 weeks. During these 2 weeks she was sending me several emails and text messages talking to me about different things.

When I got back last Saturday (16th Jan), I called her and asked her out. The conversation went like this:

Me: Hi, what's up
Her: Hi, blabla bla bla bla bla
Me: Hey, look, my plans have changed, and I got a bit of free time on Monday's afternoon, how about we go and have a coffee?
Her: (this where it starts): Wow, I have been getting quite many invitations lately, it is kinda good feeling you know, but, yeah, I think I can make it.
Me: That's great! I'll call you on Monday.

From this conversation I kinda spotted the "wow I have been getting quite many invitations lately" part, and it felt like somekind of "test" or something.

Then I called her today to give her exact time and place where to meet. The conversation went like this:

Me: Hey, how it is going? (Took around 10-15 secs till she got the phone)
Her: Hey, sorry that I made you to wait, I am taking a shower right now.
Me: Well, don't bother getting dressed, I'll be right there.
Her: *laughs*
Me: So about that coffee, let's meet at 5pm
Her: Oh, I'm sorry, I can't make it then. I have some serious stuff to do. I can only make it during the noon, can you make it?
Me: Nah, I can't, got some things to do.
Her: Oh, well then let's have coffee some other day then.
Me: Alright, I'll call you tommorow.

Basically, from these two conversations I am suspicious that she is testing me.

I need some advice guys. Really. Don't know what to do next. Should I call her tommorow?

Best regards,

Kris.

Maybe she really had something to do. You should just see what happens next time. Call her see what happens. Tone will let you know how she feels about you.

If you have in fact met a female player! Congratulations! You will learn tons of stuff from playing with her! You will have the ride of your life and you will love every single second of it! This will develop your skills bigtime!

Remember, its no fun when they give up without even playing.