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Beastasorus
 Post subject: How Important are looks?
PostPosted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 2:25 am 
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how much does it matter how you look when picking up girls?

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In my opinion it's fairly important, especially when in clubs etc, as it's noisy and first thing that catches the eye is something that looks nice, and already could give you the upperhand.

Main thing though is courage, be happy and put yourself across as confident, don't give a woman the upperhand at all.
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Looks are quite important. But are not everything.

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No guys are ugly, if your face looks like an arse, you can peacock it up! :D


always look you best
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Looks are optional. It's like extra credit. It helps to look good.

Relying on your looks will hurt your game, though. It's like relying on extra credit to make the grade.

Therefore, it's completely pointless to focus on looks if you haven't already gotten the basics of seduction down.
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Looks are optional. It's like extra credit. It helps to look good.

Relying on your looks will hurt your game, though. It's like relying on extra credit to make the grade.

Therefore, it's completely pointless to focus on looks if you haven't already gotten the basics of seduction down.
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Looks are not really that important... Thats what we use if we dont have any game at all.

It all depends on how good you are. You get away with playing badly if you are good looking, to a certain extent. However, if you can play well you can look however you want. Being worried about your looks is a terrible thing! That leads to tears... ;)
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imo its very very very important to be well grommed and well dressed, since its the first thing that gives away information about yourself, when someone sees you whether you like it or not.

on the one hand if you are good looking, most people assume that you have many other positive traits and will therefore treat you with more respect.
on the other hand if you dress like a "bum" people wont even bother to give you a second look and will regard of you poorly.

hope this helps.

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If you want in "numbers" i read it somewhere its cca 10% look, 90% your other qualities...

For us(men)... well we are pigs... we care a lot about the look :twisted:
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If you want in "numbers" i read it somewhere its cca 10% look, 90% your other qualities...
from the male perspective towards the females it would probably be 90% looks 10% other qualities most of the time xD. (jk)
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ok, so looks may matter initially at first, but it can be overcome by ones other qualities =)
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I love that vote thing Hobbit! Certainly gives you perspective.
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LOOKS are NOT important.

However, you should have:

Excellent Hygine
Style - dress nice
Charm
etc


I am not a model myself. I am 5'9'' 160, pale white, blonde hair, and women consider me "Adorable" and "cute." Cute is NOT what I like to hear lol. But once you find out their turn-ons, use them on her.

Any ugly or average guy can become a PUA or less of an AFC.

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If guys like Strauss and Mystery (both of whom, while not ugly, aren't the best looking guys) can pick up 9 and 10/10s, this should tell you that looks are not the be all and end all. As Mystery said in his book, it is a man's social value above all else that women find primarily attractive. So focus on your game, and don't concern yourself if you aren't the best looking guy in the club.
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I think good dressing sense really helps you feel great physically as well as psychologically. Thanks for sharing!
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