| Ok. So I've been studying PUA for two months now, already I am starting to see improvements. I've been getting decent at negging, built confidence in talking to women, my fear of approach is SLOWLY dissapearing, but I'm noticing that I've been feeling much more confident then ever before. There are TWO flaws however that stick:
1. I have bad teeth. Not in the sense that they're crooked, but my teeth are soft and as a result I have chips in some, fillings on the front tooth that aren't evenly matched in color to the whiteness. So it looks almost like I have a TINY bit of grunge on it.
2. I had a old female friend (when I was a hardcore AFC). Anyways, I was much more awkward back then, and she called me out on being a virgin. Saying that, "are you ever going to have sex?" in a completely bitch way, I don't remember why she brought it up. And she said shit like, "You could possibly look good in the future, right now though..." Further more, whenever I made comments about a girl I didn't like, she made comments like, "it's not like you'll be getting any other girls anyways," this hurt at the time I guess because I had a crush on her. Regardless, I'm well aware she was trying to boost her confidence because she was a dumb bitch. But everytime I feel like I get over the issue of "looks don't matter" these two variables jump back into my mind, and I start feeling much less alpha.
Any strategies on dodging this? Also, you guys are awesome! I've already made a lot of improvements to myself in context of gaming women, and I'm only seeing improvements. I'm steadily reading other PUA books and hope to get better, but this is an issue I haven't really seen many PUA books adress head on. Regardless, Thanks in advance!
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