THe worst rejection I've ever gotten was from HB 10 at a club about 7yrs ago, before I was even into PUA. I went over to her and asked her for a light and she just sat there like she couldn't hear me.

dlightmen .. maybe she had too much cum in her ears .. she couldn't hear you !

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This is how I would have turned it around:

Her: Do I know you?

Me: Yes, we hooked up last saturday night. And I'm here to apologize for not calling you back but you never gave me your phone number.


Best,

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

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You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

A few of those r really mean hahaha xD

dw guys recover

Worst that I can remember coz ive only done day game, coz there r no underage nightclubs...that I know off in my area.

"Sorry I have a boyfriend"...gotten this about 3 times, i closed a HB 9-10 that was going to meet her bf, # closed her

"Oh sorry, my fone doesnt work, and I dont have it here, and I cant remember my number off by heart."
Yes im not joking, 2set, one of them said that other one asked me for facebook...T_T
fml haha.

That one was extreme, I was gonna neg the fuck out of her, but i couldnt be bothered i was trying to get out quick

I just looked at her with a blank look and turned to the other one.

hmm...ive had bad body language also when I field tested "Hey can I help you?" in a store, and they said their response then u go "Im not really a salesman I just wanted an excuse to talk to you" unfortunately I didnt think what to say after that xD...tried to natural it, didnt work I was still pretty AFC.

Other than that, they just reject number close, or they not interested by body language so I eject.

But so far nothing as bad as some of those haha, and I hope never to get those responses

Lol @ the chick that said she didn't like weedsmoke and gunplay. If you are gonna be racist, at least be funny about it I always say.


Anyways, I've had some stuff happen to me. The stand out one was one time I went to grind on a chick who ended up being taken and she slapped me and then her supposed boyfriend suckerpunched me when I fell back onto a couch

I stopped grinding on girls for like 6 months after that

Other than that, just your typical girls running away when you come up to them, girls putting their hand in my face when I come up, eyes rolling, sucking teeth. It's all pretty standard with black girls though so I don't take it personal

Girl: Please dont talk to my friend. She is not interested.

PUA: Are you

Girl: Go away.

I walked away

You can't win them all the time...Definatly look for IOIs before approaching though. I find that if I just approach without looking for IOIs the success facter is much lower...However if I catch a glimpse of an IOI, the success factor goes up significantly on approaches.

Best,

J-Dub

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Awesome none the less

guys check this out got talking to an impressive HB8 about 30 mins in the bar , as soon as i said my oppinion opener she got sick all over my shirt and trousers !!! i had to leave , so Angry..

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All time top 2 worst rejections right here:

1. I lived in the countryside in Japan. Was the only white guy in this town. I went to McDonalds one day by myself. There was a group of 7 high school chicks sitting on the other side of the restaurant. Besides them there was no one else in the restaurant. The hottest one in the group was giving me IOI's out the ass, staring at me, smiling, etc. I would have been a fool not to try to approach. At this time I barely spoke Japanese, but I went for the approach anyways. I just went up to them in a totally normal way and introduced myself, not making this seem like a pick-up or anything strange. It was totally normal social behavior. So I said something like, "Hey, what's up guys, my name is Clozer, I just moved here...how's it going?" And the hot chick that was giving me IOI's just starts laughing hysterically as if I was a fucking clown or something. Her friends were cracking up too, but the hot chick was laughing abnormally loud. I didn't get what was so funny, so I just carried on the conversation and said, "So, do you guys live around here?" Nothing. No answer, no normal social behavior on their part, just hysterical laughing. These bitches treated me like I wasn't even human. Imagine that: people just laughing in your face and not even acknowledging you as a person. I walked back to my table. It was totally fucking humiliating. I swear, if I had had a gun I probably would have shot that bitch on the spot. I will remember that bitch forever. I hope karma delivers her a can of whoop-ass someday.

2. I was living in the city in Japan. One night after work I was walking home and I saw these two hot young chicks in mini-skirts. They were walking slower than me. As I came up behind them I said something like, "Hey, guys, how's it going tonight?" They looked back and saw me and one girl just started screaming as loud as fucking possible as if she was being raped or something. And then her friend, wanting to imitate, starts screaming her ass off too. Then the other people around were all staring like what the fuck is going on. I said something like, "What's wrong??" And they just continue to scream their asses off without even answering me. I just walked away embarrassed and pissed as hell.

I think both of these situations were bad cases of xenophobia: the fear and hatred of foreigners. Bitches like that should be shot.

I got absolutely owned by a girl about a week ago... she might be the biggest bitch on the planet - you might agree when you hear what she said:

So i was talking to this HB8 just practicing and she was fairly responsive to my approach. We talked a little bit and then parted ways, and then ran into each other again later that night at a different bar. She was with a different girl now, though. When I saw her, she was sitting at a table with her new friend, whom I'll refer to as BITCH. HB8 got up and gave me a little hug and we chatted standing for just a moment. Then I sat down at the table with HB8 and BITCH... little did I know I was walking into the dragon's lair! I sit down, and BITCH goes "what are you doing?" and I begin to speak, but am interrupted by BITCH with: "LISTEN! MY BROTHER JUST DIED IN A CAR ACCIDENT AND I REALLY JUST WANT TO TALK TO MY FRIEND RIGHT NOW SO CAN YOU JUST GO AWAY"

I apologized, very gentleman-like, gave my condolences, and walked away. however when I looked back, BITCH was laughing her head off on how she was able to get me to leave... so i went back (it's a good thing BITCH wasn't good looking... made ripping into her easier). I said "that's fucked up. have you no respect for your family at all? I could stick around and lecture you more on why you're a terrible person, but I'd rather not spend my time with someone who jokes around about the death of their closest family members"

I lost my cool, but what a bitch...

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I can't think of any easily as they don't affect me anymore, but ok lets think...last night I approached maybe 10+ sets, the worst rejection I got was a 2 set I opened, and they just turned to each other n ignored me...seriously how devastating.. I cried all night long there was probably a worst one last night but I dont remember cuz it doesn't affect me and it shouldn't affect you ether.

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can somebody explain me what is this 'hands-in-the-fact'? i've never heard of such a thing, thanks in advance (i'm not american)


And nope, I never had an extremely bad rejection. Just classical stuff like 'don't have time'/'have bf', etc.

A hands in the face is when you are approaching a girl and she puts up her hand right between you and her face... But this mostly happens when someone tries to approach the girl directly and not from the side... The girl is basically telling the guy "Don't even try it".

But the whole High-Five thing is golden to that response...Thanks to whomever suggested that.

Best,

J-Dub

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One time this chick offered me a ride home along with some other people. We'd been together most of the night, she seemed pretty into me. When she drove off I just happened to not really mention where I live, we basically drove right past my house without me mentioning anything. Anyway, I end up being the last in the car, and I eventually tell her where I live. She keeps on driving to her house (waaaayyy far away from where I'm going) and we stop at a 711. In the car she would say stuff like "Well I don't what you're gonna do" and she kept saying how she had to get up in a few hours (she was an elementary school teacher..pretty cool I thought. She was hot too) This is where it all got weird. We were standing outside the sev and we litterally had a conversation that went like this.

her: Mmmm, mm mm mmmm mm m m mmmmmmm
me: MMMMMMM m mmmm mmmm m m mmm m mmmmmm
her: Hm mm mm m mmm. Mmm m MM Mm m Mmmmm.

By the tonality in her voice she was telling me "I can't believe you're here, you thought I was just gonna sleep with you huh?" and I was saying "SHIT, I can't believe I got tricked to come out here following you. How could I've been so stupid!" The "mmms" went on for quite a while, and luckily during the conversation a bus went by and I quickly ran away without properly saying goodbye. I was so glad the bus came and saved me, but looking back on it, I kinda thought "FUCK! What if I was wrong?" But overall, I think I was right.