I was browsing the internet and something interesting really caught my eye! I found this thread started and the subject of it sparked my curiosity to read more. But It said, "Is Secretly Taping My Roommate So Bad?"

and he asks-
-"My roommate is astoundingly hot. Her room is being repaired and, at her request, I’m letting her and her boyfriend sleep in my room while I take the couch. Would it be so wrong?"

and I'm looking at the comments and lots of people are jokingly saying he should and some are saying he shouldn't because of how creepy it would be and invading privacy and blah blah blah. But the main thing that goes in my head, that blows my fucking mind is this very short sentence. I’m letting her and her boyfriend sleep in my room while I take the couch

To the untrained that sentence right there shows how much he cares and she'll notice and eventually see it and leave her boyfriend for him or someday and be togther! That's just pure craziness! Why don't you hand your balls over to her on a silver platter while you're forever in friend zone(the couch) jacking off to the sounds of her moans through the walls at night and they leave the sheets for you to wash in the morning hahaha That might of been the most extreme AFC thing I've seen or heard of in a while. The sad part of this is that there are tons of guys like this out there and believe me we were all like this once!! just not as extreme but always ready with a quick compliment and ready to do something nice so she will see the light.

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That is so sad............

Someone put that guy out of his misery..............

He should've had them sleep on the couch and a sleeping bag. wtf?

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Stormy: Being friendly to seek approval is needy. Being UNfriendly to "raise your value" is needy. Needy people depend on others' reactions.

lol Who does that? I mean it's nice but in a pushover kinda way you know what I mean?

yesss.. I would kill myself before i do something like that. I simply wouldn't feel like a man after doing something like that. haha that's another level of desperation, I've never been even in my low afc days!!

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Last Month I finally broke down and told a friend of mine that his wife had cheated on him while he was in jail (3 months for "carding")....Usually I would never "rat" on someone but she is such a bitch and I was getting tired of seeing him put up with her constant bullshit....

Well instead of pushing him over the edge and leaving her once and for all........drum roll...... He apologized to her for being such an Ass all these years and bought her a new HTC cellphone!!!! They are currently "working everything out"...

I have seen some AFC behavior over the years but this beats all I've seen.... I completely dropped him as a friend cause I can't bear to watch it....I seriously can't look him in the eye anymore !!! Does anyone else know what im talking about here ????

She's his WIFE, not his girlfriend. The relationship obviously meant something deep to him. What he did was what anybody else would do in his situation.

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Stormy: Being friendly to seek approval is needy. Being UNfriendly to "raise your value" is needy. Needy people depend on others' reactions.

True but at the same time wife or not, There shouldn't be that much lack of disrespect for someone and putting up with it. Usually woman that don't respect their man don't usually love them later in time. Like come on, dude was away for only 3months and she cheated?? I understand that you shouldn't just break it off and should do everything to make it work but some things are way past repair.

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That's what finally made me spilll the beans....she was constantly disrespecting him....I could keep her dirty little secret if she wasn't constantly walking all over him.....Maybe it wasn't my place to tell the guy but I got a soft spot in my soul for "Chumps" and I thought this would help him "see the light". Would yall have told??

Wife or Not, cheating is a deal breaker in my eyes.....What did the above poster mean when he said "He did what any other married man would do in his shoes!" WTF....Im confused by all of this. Opinions??

Thats true as well, but calling it an AFC thing to do is just dumb. In my opinion, that's not AFC at all.

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Stormy: Being friendly to seek approval is needy. Being UNfriendly to "raise your value" is needy. Needy people depend on others' reactions.

When you get married to somebody, you don't do it on a whim or without thinking---that person MEANS something to you. Cheating is a symptom of a deeper problem, and I'm glad that the man understood that, and tried to make things better.

There's two sides to every story.

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Stormy: Being friendly to seek approval is needy. Being UNfriendly to "raise your value" is needy. Needy people depend on others' reactions.

But still shouldn't support her wrong doings with presents in hopes that she'll stick around. Oh well, I see both sides of the fence, that marriage is sacred and you should try with everything you have to make it work, even sometimes if one of the people cheats. But if there's constant red flags then that's when you decide what's important here. You being happy and knowing you deserve better or repairing an already sunken ship?

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I made the mistake of being charming and handsome... I apologize