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PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 3:43 am 
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I get this text and it's so weird, she wants to talk to me tomorrow but I might as well force it out of her tonight.

I just asked her to be my girlfriend yesterday, I find her really awesome and intriguing. We've been dating for 2/3 weeks, adding up to about 7 or 10 hours spent together.

We made out and I told her we weren't going to have sex (in case it was a shit test), and I ended up getting head from her, after she BEGGED ME to give it! I was psyched. She called it a "preview" or something like that for the next time we hook up.

So her text is this:
"I just feel like I don't know you and its so soon but my heart wants you"

No idea what to say next... I honestly don't care if we aren't dating, but I do not want to be in friend zone with this girl.

Help please.
-so confused


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 3:44 am 
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 3:59 am 
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Ahhh yeah I don't think things are gonna go so good, she probably wants to spend more time hanging out and getting to know me first before having sex...

Looks like I need to work on my comfort building...


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Well, if you asked her out with genuine interest in the first place, that shouldn't be too much of a daunting task.

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Well, this might backfire, so I'd wait to see what some other people say, but you could shit test her, because that's pretty much what she's doing to you. Just call her up, and sound serious and kinda torn up when you say this.

You: "Hey..."
Her: "Hey, what's up?"
You: "Well...I was thinking. You may be right...I don't know if I know you well enough yet and I was thinking maybe we should just be friends"

Might work better in a text message actually cause then she has some time to go "wtf?! I just gave you head!" and worry about what's going on in your head.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 5:41 am 
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Oh well, I'm done with this one. We talked tonight. This thread can die off now.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 2:56 pm 
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Oh dear! maybe you should have worded it something like 'If nothing else, you'd make a good friend' personally Id have not mentioned the TXT on the phone call, just call her and say 'You'll never guess what, I saw 2 dwarfs fighting outside Burger king today... bla bla' made her laugh then arrange to meet up. Then take it from there.

Let us know how this ends up


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