Hello people!
I really need a few boyfriend destroyer tactics right now, is there any help i can get!

Ah. Finally. Now remember I'm still a rafc at this stage so if someone else points a fault in my tactics then that's just simply a fault in my game.
But don't ignore this, because it's better than nothing, and hell it works down here, usually though BFD's result in having to date the girl though so watch out.

Right, well heres one iv'e used and it hasn't failed me yet. If it's an alpha bf neg the crap out of him. negs. not insults.

"Hey that's a great hat your wearing, I used to have one when I was seven"
"Wow you like this show (whatever subject) that's crazy, my sister loves that"
"Oh your one of those people"
"You have a cat? Oh guys you should see I have a crazy cat guy living across from me (launch into good story)"

Pile them on. And be fun and carefree about it.

Sooner or later he'll get agressive and try to prove himself, be alpha but in a nice way "wowa buddy, i come in peace, i'm a social bug (to gf) boy you can sure pick-em" if she responds with something like oh were in love blah blah, if you simply wisely smile, maybe secretly wink, then your already giving her a different opinion (if not, your already in, just keep pushing and pulling) If he fell for it and got agressive, as long as youv'e been subtle enough, he's just got angry at the nice fun guy, your on top. Then from there its all push-pull, lots of push with occasional pulls. Drive her crazy. That's my method but then again it has only been done on high school sweethearts. I havn't tried it in other environments.

If the guy is submissive then it's easy game, be alpha and fun, don't need to be needed, trust me, the girl would be easier to game than single girls

Again, highschool tactics, and I have only been able to use them in highschool. If your still stuck then mystery's techniques are golden.

The rest is game.

Classic:

when he does get aggressive the guy will start to touch you and try and intimidate you.

" WOH FELLA! back to the gay bar, im not like that, (to the girl) did you know he was like this?"

the ost crushing bf destroyer is saying they are gay! for an AMOG, its over

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this is good...if you want to get punched.

YOU dont get punched unless he is like a phscho. the one i ever use and my face is in tact

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A BF destroyer is not the same as AMOGing someone.

An AMOG is the alpha male of the group. He is an asset. If you can show dominance or befriend him you are in.

The boyfriend is most likely not there. I dont think anyone could make a girl break up with her BF and go home with him the same night if he is right there. Anyway I wouldnt want her if she did.

There are some BF destroyer tactics, like Tylor Durdens stuff and they are basically there to show her that she does not wanna be with him so much and she would go for something better if she could.

The way I deal with boyfriends is that I dont. I dont care if she has a BF or not. If I am a better choice she will go with me instead. If not, then her loss.

So you see, the best way to deal with them is to deal with yourself. Be the best man you can and outshine them.

Ezo

zeo is right when he say that "im the better choise if she dosent want me she loss " it needs a lot of confidence and innner game to BF destory...

Brilliance from Ezo yet again. Though klepto brought up something iv'e been wanting to ask the big birds. I'll post it up a new topic so I don't hijack this thread and I can get some other opinions about it. Basically, Insults as AMOGing?

OK Felon I think the best BF Destroyer pattern is from Ross Jeffries...it's based on NLP and is very tricky The basic aim is to explain her as if their relationship go and end bad...in that way you make her feel the bad emotions and to think about the bad things in their relationship...it goes something like this:
"Did you ever imagined if someday your relationship became exhausted...all the places you go together are the same, the sex is dull, you're quarreling each other for all the small things that made you happy and fasten your relationship in the past...the whole picture in your brain become grey and monotonous...soon you break up with him as you are already pissed off of this shit and after that much to your surprise you feel very good without him...he doesn't miss you and soon you totally forget him...then you meet someone new(point yourself) and find out that this is the guy for you...your thoughts become colorful again you feel totally loved and wanted...etc etc....."
This variant of the pattern is mine and I just framed it up, but the general aim is to catch the basic idea of this routine!

Have fun

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I still don't get wy someone would even want to game a gril when her boyfriend is around...

If your game is really that tight go for a other girl..
If there ain't anny other HBs in the club then what are you doing there...?

But... if you really have to....
Be verry carfull...
This shit can escalate real fast
and I think there is no honor in that anyway...


Yours,

Mike_D

Hey Mike, almost every hot girl have boyfriend then why should you limit yourself? I don't think this is some kind of crime...If the girl is hot - game is ON

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lol, thats true

but when I find out the boyfriend is standing next to the chick
I mostly just go to have a beer whit my friends and go to the next set
If he leaves her going out alone, then game is ON

* I must plea guilty though i did it once to I must admit..
but it just generates to much shit the next morning...
If you can do it without that bullshit..... you realy rock

A BF destroyer is not the same as AMOGing someon[quote]

Totally right mate! you want to get with the AMOG, but chances are the Boyfriends are not the AMOG. so thats when you use the destroyers. AMOGS you can work with.

ezo is completely right, the way to deal with it is NOT to deal with it,

if the BF is not actually present, using a 'reframing' technique is a useful way of showing you dont see him as an obstacle and enforcing your own 'meta-frame'!

my favorite reframe is swinggcats classic:

HB: i have a BF
PUA: Great! he can bring us breakfast in bed tomorrow morning!
HB: haha etc.

brief, but you get the idea.

a bf will only usually be an obstacle if you perceive it as one! i am currently gaming a girl at college who is quite happy to fondle me under the table before skipping off to see her BF...

p.s. an outright insult like saying 'get back to the gay bar' is allowing him to draw you into his frame, which may end in a bout of verbal sparring and will possibly end in you getting a beating or being 'crushed' with a comeback and looking like a complete tool. being a PUA is about gaining verbal mastery and befriending people, if you are attempting to AMOG someone.. straight insults are not the way to go...

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