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PostPosted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 4:48 am 
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Word to your mother! SO this is going to be my online journal as Hobbit has come to suggest. You probably seen my posts around the forum, seen me around in the chat, now its time to see me in a new light. First you gotta understand where I am on my journey, I got into game september of this year when my friend told me about it, I absorbed as much information as I could as quick as possible, and went out to field test it. AA was non-existant I cold opened sets as I learned my new found skills, but then i dropped off the cliff. I was getting comfortable with who I was as a person. Now its time to change, hike back up the cliff and go all the way.

My goals are:
  • Open 5 sets a day, Kiss close a girl, Learn to Grab and Grind, Get laid, Get a girlfriend
These are the things I am happy about with myself:
  • I dress well all the time, I'm generally always happy, I'm funny, I have a car, I have a job, I have a strong relationship with my family, I have friends, I'm willing to do what I have to to be successful
Things I want to Change:
  • I want to open more cold sets, I want to have bigger arms, I want to feel comfortable expressing myself sexually, I want to carry over my confidence into my day to day actions, I want to meet more people/friends in college, I want to have girls that are friends with me in a sexual manner
I will post field reports detailing my outings/days/approaches. Expect a ton of posts coming straight from me and If i don't achieve what I'm supposed to do, you will know it. Ive always been a shoulda-woulda-coulda guy, now its time to be a man of action.

~leaving behind Philosopher and becoming Ego

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 9:28 pm 
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So this is gonna be the one and only field report from me that has this outcome : failure. But, let me recapp the events. I threw on my new black shoes, my black jeans, a nice grey shirt, brown vintage leather jacket, and decided to hit the mall. I was going to be in the area anyway so I might as well make the best of it. Im always confident in my looks, when I feel good I feel good. I noticed eye contact from everywhere, I walked around with my head high, made solid eye contact, smiled, and just looked like the sexy guy that I am. It seems that I kinda fell into a rut, no excuses, but I did allitle too much shopping at the mall and not enough trying to pick up women. I flirted with the cashiers from the stores I went in, just allitle small talk. I always do that anyway so I can't count me socializing with the people who work in the stores as a set.

After a few laps (i was only at the mall for an hour and a half) I decided to go home. I did no cold approaches, I felt terrible. So i decided to help myself to starbucks, might as well pick up my mood. So right behind me comes this cute set with a nice looking blonde, but with braces. I called it jail bait, smiled a bit, but otherwise tried to avoid the friendly stares of the girl. I wanted to make a nice comment on her earings, but I couldnt even bring myself to do it. Felt terrible.

Car Ride home was semi productive. Time to go back to AA breaking methods. The first one I ever used helped me break AA in just one session, the hurricane. Basically Im just gonna dedicate my next malling to say hi to everyone I pass. It worked in the past why would it not work now? As long as I constantly flex my pua skills, they shouldnt get rusty like they are now.

Next field report will INCLUDE :
  • The Hurricane Method for removing AA
Until Next time
~ego

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Ight so this is just gonna be a compound of some night game from 2 days ago and day game today.

I went out to my friends house party, i walked in everything seemed cool, small party said hi to everyone i knew, hugged some of the girls I knew, just chilled. Then my friend comes around and hes like, "Don't go downstairs, maddd people down their." SO naturally I go downstairs and what do i see? A whole nother party on a different level. It was packed, i knew absolutley nobody downstairs and I made a critical mistake, I didnt work the room. This proved to become a problem as I felt out of place during my time downstairs, I watched some people play beerpong, said hi to a few people, but I tried to get upstairs where I was comfortable and un afc. Played some cards with another friend, chilled with the guys and some girl named Rachel came to sit down at our table. Some fluff minimal flirting. I suprisingly remembered her name, and my friend pointed that out. I replied with "I always remember pretty girls names." The girl looked taken aback but fluff continued and it didnt go anywhere. I noticed a few ioi's from 2 girls in particular while I was in the basement but I unfortunatley was to pussy to act upon them. I went over to another friend who was talking to this girl, and she showed me all the single girls at the party, there weren't many. Shit happened and my friend had to kick everyone out, one by one all the drunk girls left the house. For some reason they all flocked to me to start talking but they did the stupid drunk things that they talk about. I was polite but nothing led to anything, my conscience is too pure to take advantage of a drunk girl. So I learned one thing in the art of house parties that I forgot
  • Work The Room Early!!!
So for day game i promised hurricaning. At first I was kinda shy but after sitting down and eating a quick lunch I quickly got into the groove of saying hi to every stranger I met. I wasnt at the mall for more then 1 hour, when responsibility called and I had to leave. Overall I think I made some progress, Next time ill be able to Hurricane allitle more and definatley be able to open a few sets. Look foward to that in the next field report!

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Long time no feild report but w.e. imma post one on my night game tommorow but today i went to NYC for some sarging with 2 friends.

But before I start, let me rant allitle. I don't claim to be anything i'm not, I don't have anything to prove to anybody but myself, and regardless of how big you think your ego is, mine is bigger.

^^dont worry about that, rage aside lets get to the details.

I hit macys first, place is a GOLDMINE, of sets. HBs all over the place, I met my 2 boys upstairs at au bon pan, had lunch. I noticed a HB working at a small boothe for phonak which sells hearing aids, I took some time to approach her but just went right into it after eating lunch. Direct game through and through I opened with "Hey you look pretty cute, whats your name?" She introduced herself, I ran through my transition checklist, fluffed, talked, then I noticed I forgot to introduce myself, I went to introduce myself and went to shake her hand, and I hit resistance. She was VERY awkward shaking my hand, this irked me and i quickly ejected from the set. I clearly didnt build enough attraction/comfort but I can tell I wasn't going to. We talked for a good 5 minutes and I kept firm body language and tonality.

Waited for my friends to open their first set, and I opened this girl who was taller than me looking at shoes. Same opener, fluffed a bit, but she was shocked that I was talking to her, I wasn't feeling a strong hooking point after running through my transition check list, so I ejected.

I know, PLOW through, but I was more concerned on opening other sets. So at this point my friends wanted to switch venues, we proceeded to travel to forever 21, and were consumed with social awkwardness for being the only guys in the store, AA kinda gripped us and we couldnt really open any sets. Oh well I was the one that pushed for us to stay in macys.

Now this leads me to a misconception and social belief, It is socially unacceptable to talk to a stranger in NYC when its dark outside. I mean me and my friends were walking and we just couldnt bring ourselves to do it. It was dark outside and we couldnt stop a set and open direct on her. I REALLY need to overcome this disbelief and stop her anyway. It just feels socially awkward and unacceptable to do this in the big city. I guess this can be a sticking point.

So I accomplished going direct for the first time in my life, felt good. The conversations were the longest conversations that I have had cold approaching a random stranger. So i feel some sort of success but not enough. I hunger for more success and will carry my positive attitude foward to night game tommorow. I will show my friend that he is way out of his league compared to me and my game will net me hotties. Until next time.

~ego

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Very good night game feild report here, knocked 2 things off my checklist tonight, Im really proud of myself.

So I hit the club with my sister, her friend, and my wing. It was a teen club so I was very sketchy with who I danced with but Im 18, i wasnt even supposed to be there. So we all walk into the club together, start dancing with each other while we scope out the floor. My wing jumped right into a circle of 5 girls and took his girl and started dancing. It was really good shit, I was like DAMMM hes getting the jump on me. SO i quickly saw this blonde, she was hot, AMAZING rack, but i digress. I asked her to dance, I know its kinda pussy but everyone was doing it, so i grabbed her and we started grinding. Her friend didnt have a guy to dance with so that ended up to be the downfall after a good 10 minutes of grinding. Some things to notice, I was using forced seduction, taking her hands and putting them on my body. This worked amazing as I felt her grab at my dick a few times, I shoulda went in for the kiss right there but It was the first girl I was dancing with all night. Her friend pulled her out, I pulled a quick number close and followed it with "It was a pleasure dancing with you, 15 minutes later." She txted the pleasure was all hers, she txted me again, I replied "So is that your way to get me to dance with you again?" She said she would dance wiith me when she went back into the club but I didnt see her again.

I bounced quickly to this other girl, grinded her from the front a bit, but after a few minutes she politley rejected me, didnt even hit me. We werent too into it anyway.

So i met up with my friend and the 2 girls, danced a bit then i saw this girl eye fucking me. I go to my wing, u take her friend I got her. I went over to her, "Your looking at me because you want to dance right?" She said yes and we proceeded to grind. My friend got rejected from her friend but it was all good. tried the forced seduction, didnt work to well, but I pulled a gambler and leaned into her, she kept thinking I was going to kiss her, and then she just pulled my face towards her and I got my first hook up ever. /cheer. But just the first of many, we proceeded to dance, grind, hook up, and have a good time. She didnt want to get rid of me either because everytime we took a drink break she grabbed my hand and lead me with her. We hooked up a bit more, i accidentally grabbed her boob trying to get a good posture on her body but no biggy haha. We hooked up some more, got the number but kept with the interaction. I found out she was ticklish and was constantly tickling her. My hand rested somewhere near her bra as we danced but she didnt even mind, she liked it up there as opposed to down lower near her butt. She had to leave, I made her give me a good bye kiss, and did a follow up text after, she responded with "I had a great time Love, (name here)." That must be positive we spent like 2-3 hours dancing with each other. What I did right here was that I escalated, I talked to her while dancing but didnt ask her a million questions, I DHVd myself to her friend, and her friend gave her approval to me really quickly. We both felt bad hooking up in front of the friend but who knows /shrug.

So I completed 2 things on my checklist. I learned how to grab and grind, and kiss closed a girl. A great night and Im very proud of myself.

Thanks for reading!! ~~ego

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So I hit the club with my sister
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I asked her to dance, I know its kinda pussy but everyone was doing it,


Two things
1) not kinda pussy.... pussy
2) 'everyone was doing it' ...since when was pick up about being the same as everyone else?


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notice, I was using forced seduction, taking her hands and putting them on my body. This worked amazing as I felt her grab at my dick a few times, I shoulda went in for the kiss right there but It was the first girl I was dancing with all night. Her friend pulled her out, I pulled a quick number close and followed it with "It was a pleasure dancing with you, 15 minutes later." She txted the pleasure was all hers, she txted me again, I replied "So is that your way to get me to dance with you again?" She said she would dance wiith me when she went back into the club but I didnt see her again.
good boy for the 'forced' stuff. I like to lead chicks this way to, very dominant. good prequel for sex imho.

she grabbed your dick, did you squirt? joking. but cool, in a sense good tht you didnt kiss her, you dont wana kiss every girl in a club, well, depends, but, it can blow you out with others etc. up to you and your intent.

how did you say the 'pleasure dancing with you'...sounds very gentlemanly after your dominant sex fiend shit. i might be being picky but still. better things to say than that.
you gonna follow this one up?


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I went over to her, "Your looking at me because you want to dance right?"
whats with all the yes/no questions... also with the 'right', get rid of that, its approval seeking. tell her she wants to dance with you. can depend on how you said that too though.

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tried the forced seduction, didnt work to well, but I pulled a gambler and leaned into her, she kept thinking I was going to kiss her, and then she just pulled my face towards her and I got my first hook up ever. /cheer.
it worked, so all good... but maybe if it dont work, go more subtle, also, after iod, i wouldnt try doing something that demands higher investment, but i also wouldnt back off/get knocked. i love when chicks decide to kiss me, but *maybeeeee* looked pussy tht you escalated she mini rejected, and tht you were too 'scared' to kiss. may have been how it looked, i dont know, dont go dominant then shy into pasive, can look pussy, but you got k close, so what do you care?
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But just the first of many, we proceeded to dance, grind, hook up, and have a good time. She didnt want to get rid of me either because everytime we took a drink break she grabbed my hand and lead me with her. We hooked up a bit more, i accidentally grabbed her boob trying to get a good posture on her body but no biggy haha. We hooked up some more, got the number but kept with the interaction. I found out she was ticklish and was constantly tickling her. My hand rested somewhere near her bra as we danced but she didnt even mind, she liked it up there as opposed to down lower near her butt. She had to leave, I made her give me a good bye kiss, and did a follow up text after, she responded with "I had a great time Love, (name here)." That must be positive we spent like 2-3 hours dancing with each other. What I did right here was that I escalated, I talked to her while dancing but didnt ask her a million questions, I DHVd myself to her friend, and her friend gave her approval to me really quickly. We both felt bad hooking up in front of the friend but who knows /shrug.
dont tickle too much, can be weird/odd. good man for number closing then carrying on... you dont want the last thing you do be to get her number, looks a bit trophy seeking, and shit, but its after a kclose so all to the good tbh. but good man for getting tht out the way then carrying on. ....what was your follow up text?
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So I completed 2 things on my checklist. I learned how to grab and grind, and kiss closed a girl. A great night and Im very proud of myself.

Thanks for reading!! ~~ego

Well done, bro. You achieved your goals. I'm proud, you're proud, we can all be proud together. Now run some follow up game ( ;

Seriously though, good stuff, man, continue to learn, grow and game.

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Very good night game feild report here, knocked 2 things off my checklist tonight, Im really proud of myself.

So I hit the club with my sister, her friend, and my wing. It was a teen club so I was very sketchy with who I danced with but Im 18, i wasnt even supposed to be there. So we all walk into the club together, start dancing with each other while we scope out the floor. My wing jumped right into a circle of 5 girls and took his girl and started dancing. It was really good shit, I was like DAMMM hes getting the jump on me. SO i quickly saw this blonde, she was hot, AMAZING rack, but i digress. I asked her to dance, I know its kinda pussy but everyone was doing it, so i grabbed her and we started grinding. Her friend didnt have a guy to dance with so that ended up to be the downfall after a good 10 minutes of grinding. Some things to notice, I was using forced seduction, taking her hands and putting them on my body. This worked amazing as I felt her grab at my dick a few times, I shoulda went in for the kiss right there but It was the first girl I was dancing with all night. Her friend pulled her out, I pulled a quick number close and followed it with "It was a pleasure dancing with you, 15 minutes later." She txted the pleasure was all hers, she txted me again, I replied "So is that your way to get me to dance with you again?" She said she would dance wiith me when she went back into the club but I didnt see her again.

I bounced quickly to this other girl, grinded her from the front a bit, but after a few minutes she politley rejected me, didnt even hit me. We werent too into it anyway.

So i met up with my friend and the 2 girls, danced a bit then i saw this girl eye fucking me. I go to my wing, u take her friend I got her. I went over to her, "Your looking at me because you want to dance right?" She said yes and we proceeded to grind. My friend got rejected from her friend but it was all good. tried the forced seduction, didnt work to well, but I pulled a gambler and leaned into her, she kept thinking I was going to kiss her, and then she just pulled my face towards her and I got my first hook up ever. /cheer. But just the first of many, we proceeded to dance, grind, hook up, and have a good time. She didnt want to get rid of me either because everytime we took a drink break she grabbed my hand and lead me with her. We hooked up a bit more, i accidentally grabbed her boob trying to get a good posture on her body but no biggy haha. We hooked up some more, got the number but kept with the interaction. I found out she was ticklish and was constantly tickling her. My hand rested somewhere near her bra as we danced but she didnt even mind, she liked it up there as opposed to down lower near her butt. She had to leave, I made her give me a good bye kiss, and did a follow up text after, she responded with "I had a great time Love, (name here)." That must be positive we spent like 2-3 hours dancing with each other. What I did right here was that I escalated, I talked to her while dancing but didnt ask her a million questions, I DHVd myself to her friend, and her friend gave her approval to me really quickly. We both felt bad hooking up in front of the friend but who knows /shrug.

So I completed 2 things on my checklist. I learned how to grab and grind, and kiss closed a girl. A great night and Im very proud of myself.

Thanks for reading!! ~~ego
Niiiiiiiiice. You make me want to start night gaming.


I haven't read the rest of your posts yet, but I'm definitely going to be following this journal.


It looked like your frame was affected by "what everybody was doing" when you ASKED her to dance. Maybe that might have come across as pussy... but it only shows that the opener doesn't matter as much as your midgame.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 7:52 am 
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What the hell is all this shit about asking someone to dance?

What matters is that it worked and she danced with you. As soon as that stops working, step it up. Some people here might disagree with your "gentlemanly" ways, but if I feel that it's highly irrelevant and purely a stylistic choice.

What you need to work on is more aggressive night game escalation. You might think you're kino escalating well right now, but it's not enough. The number one thing you should be focused on during these times, however, is LOGISTICS while simply assuming that you will have sex with her if all the logistics are in place. Learn to work out your logistics ahead of time while keeping it flexible enough to improvise them in field if need be.

Now lets see some FRs from your Day 2s.


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