Hey guys, this is my first post on any pua forum.
Yesterday I was with a couple mates who must've got talking behind my back about the fact that I'm a pua. It turns out they were planning to bring some girls to the house to see how I work. They just werent telling me this. Stupidly, before long I smoked some weed (dont usually smoke) and got real paranoid and it was messing with my head for the rest of the day. 2 girls came over to the house, both 6s (or 8s to an afc) and I was avoiding them because i was stoned and i wanted the paranoia to wear off and my brain to go back to normal. Turns out it takes atleast an overnight sleep for that to happen. Anyway I was chillin alone in the kitchen trying to get my mind together, and rehydrating like a fucking camel. The kitchen was a mess, so I started washing up, I figured doing something productive would help me get my shit together. Then one of the guys, an aquaintance, who is a dick, was putting the pressure on me to go into the lounge with him to meet the girls. I said no, and explained I was stoned off my tree and needed to do something productive. He thought I was being shy about the girls and started pressuring me. I wanted to knock him out but I didn't. Thinking back, I should have. The girls could hear him from the other room pressuring me, so I started getting even more paranoid that not only did they think I was being shy about the girls, (which was killing my game), but also I was fucking stoned.
So I finished the dishes and head into the lounge. I met a couple guys who werent there before, completely ignoring the 2 girls (there were about 6 guys, bit of a sausage fest), but it was just becoming more and more apparant to everyone that I was stoned. which in a way was a good thing. Then, the same penis that was pressuring me earlier in the kitchen, piped up (in front of everyone) and said:
"So Jared, you gonna get any girls tonight?"
I thought:
"You. Fucking. Dick."
I pretended it didnt phase me and fired back:
"Yeah bro, probably, as long as I dont stay stoned forever"
To which the dipshit said (in front of everyone, whom were all actively listening quietly and very interested in this whole thing):
"so whats your method?"
He fucked it up.
Looking back I should have taken it and worked with it, as I think I read somewhere that when people know you're a pua (and I'm sure they told the girls earlier) just work with it and be open about it. But again, I was stoned. And angry at that dick head.
I've never done much in the way of damage control, so I just walked out, and went home.
That was last night.
I'm still feeling a little downhearted about it.
I'm a newbie, but I've been reading about pua for a couple months now. First book was Style's "The Game".
Any advice here much appreciated.
Tank

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You obviously tend to think that reading about PUA, makes u a PUA. judging by the post you are still a RAFC. You know how to not be a tool anymore, but obviously some AMOG still owned your ass. That doesnt happen to a PUA.

Just relax. I don't consider myself a PUA yet and i get into this kind of bullshit all the time. Next time stay sober and make sure you have your wits up when this happens. Girls don't mind if your a player. Usually players tend to treat them better and more honestly than AFC's.

Good luck!

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First off. I limit the amount of drugs, including alcohol I take before I game.

Second, you should have confronted the guys when you first suspected that they talked about you behind your back.

Third, thats a question they asked you in front of the girls just to mess with you. What kind of friends are they?

The way to deal with a question like that is: I dont know, what do you think? Will I get laid, place your bets. Who the hell cares, lets just have fun.
They asked you for your method. You say: Yeah the Mystery method have you ever heard about it. Then you know enough to shut up when appropriate. I dont mess with your girls and you dont mess with mine ok.
Now that is a very strange thing to say. I think that you must have some misconceptions or a glorified view on what a PUA really is. A PUA is just human, with a specific skillset. There will ALWAYS be people who are stronger or better than you. Nobody is so strong that they cannot be AMOGed. Even superman gets AMOGed by a tiny piece of kryptonite.

We dont deal in superpowers we are only human. All of us!

Dude, thats not a friend thats a DICK! All he was trying to do was lower your value so hed look good in front of the girls and get a couple of laughs. He just brought you over there too tool with you. Id definitely talk to him about that. Real friends dont do that type of shit to other friends. I know how it feels man trust me. Those types of situations are the fucking worst. Next time if you go out with him have a gameplan ready and if you do have something really embarassing to say about him in a group of people. That shit will really get under his skin and hell regret making fun of you. But damn man thats some bullshit right there. Obviously he doesnt have his best interest in you at all.

Talk to him and if he does it again leave his ass and find some other friends. If he does that shit in front of a group of people again id personally fucking beat his ass and then leave his ass. Problem solved. No more negative friends for now.

@msquared: Yeyah thats what i thought too. they werent close friends, just some 'mates' never really hang out with them usually. the dick head was just some aquaintance, but i didnt want to beat the shit out of him cos he was a friend of a good friend of mine.

@ezo: yea man i definitly regreat smokin the weed aye at one point in the night i seriously thought the police were staking me out hahahhaha and yea i was thinking about confronting them but they wouldve just denied it. i shouldve snuck up on them while they were in the other room. and yea, i know he was only asking the question to mess with my head in front of the girls. and i couldve handled it way better, if i wasnt stoned, and i guess at the same time, being a rookie, i just couldnt think on my feet fast enough to take it and make a joke out of it, like you said. more practice and i should get quicker with my wits.

@buccaneer: pua stands for pick up artist. that means an artist, whose art form is picking up girls. i am qualified and skilled at picking up girls, maybe not as much as you, but if I cant paint as well as monet does that mean im not a painting artist?
and you're right, i did need to relax, and still do, about the whole thing. and youre also right about most girls not minding if someone is a pua.

the more i think about what you guys have said, the more calm i am about what happened and the more ready i am for next time
so thanks heaps, guys, i think ill stick around on the forum, as i have no one else that i can learn from and ask questions

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