Im tired of trying to get target to qualify herself to me. My success rate of that is like 1 in 10-they just never friggin come correct. I didn't quite get to any newsletter by the master PUA's to read up on this. I guess its attributed to low attraction that makes a girl not want to qualify.

Checc it out-this' how it went about 3 hrs. ago with an HB8.5 I'd #closed 2 days ago.
[Via text]
Me:Looks aren't everything. I need more than that in a chic to interest me. What do U got goin on besides looks?

HB8.5:Well,you would find out in time 2 come.

Damn,I hate that shit!!! I replied bacc."I don't want to find out down the line that you're some psycho,so I want to know now". I didnt get a reply up to now(lol).

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I can understand something like that frustrates you, but bro the point is to never be phased by what women say...and you were a little harsh with that text to be honest it wasn't playful at all, or funny, or cocky, it was more like...well I dont know just horrible!

Next time think of something like this as a shit test...give it some time to think about a reply!

You could have replied "I'll have some time to find out next wednesday at 9:00" you know, and kept a strong frame...now you probably ruined it :<

I agree with Chillburg. Whenever a girl emails or text messages me, I give myself time to read between the lines...Think this or that before responding and how they would response to whatever I'm writing. Remember, you have to be ahead of the game before they have you in the corner.

Before I was so impulsive, as soon as they emailed or texted me I would write back just as fast then later I would think to myself 'crap I think she will take what I said in the wrong way' or 'I should have said this instead',etc. It all worked against me.

Besides, having them wait on you for a response builds up their suspense for you. But don't wait too long before they become uninterested. Timing has a lot to do with it.

Best,

J-Dub

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You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

Great points from J-Dub and Chillburg;appreciate it. I know better than but...

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Im not sure what exactly you mean by her having to ''qualify herself'' for you..,
but you honestly shouldnt say things like that which are basically 'interrogating' the girl, especially after not knowing her for too long, as it will simply just creep them out.

Remember man that even though you may be very confident interally about yourself, in the girls eyes YOU still need to 'qualify yourself' to her, by showing her that you are a fun charming guy for her to be around and chat to.

And so if you start getting too heavy with the conversation it will put girls off you, as you wont seem fun or charming to them then.

Good advice Spanish 89.

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Its ok man, good luck with the future girls..