Ok, so I need some help.

There's this girl over here from the states for a week or so. She seems interested in me and I'd like to spend some more time with her, possibly over night, before she leaves.

I'm not sure if this is the right place for this post, but I've already hung out with this girl twice, so I figure it fits into Closing and Day 2.

I'll start from the beginning...

I have a friend who moved over here from California a few years back. He has to female friends that have come over to visit for a week or so. He called me up the other night and said he thought I would get along really well with one of them.

I met up with them in the city and we went back to my mate's place, and chilled on his porch. It came up in conversation that this girl wanted to go to the botanical gardens.

"Would you like to take me on Saturday?" she asked me.

"Yeah, sure, why not?" was my answer.

It was a little awkward after that, so the conversation shifted.

Later on, my friend and his other friend went inside for whatever reasons, and I was left playing cards and talking to this girl for a while, it was good friendly conversation. We got along well. I left when they were all heading to bed knowing that I'd see them again the following night.

We went out to a gig last night. This girl and I spent a lot of the night talking about a lot of different things. It was going smoothly. She laughed at my jokes, and kept gazing into my eyes for extended periods of time.

Just before they left she came up to me and I think she wanted my number, she was saying something about going to the beach tomorrow and that my mate had my number, so he could call me. I just went along with that, when in hindsight I probably should have actually given her number so she could call. We hugged and said goodbye.

As they were walking away, I was talking to one of my ex-girlfriends and some other friends.

My ex said "She's totally into you man, go get her number!", some other people agreed, and she continued "She's been giving you eyes all night!"

"I'll get it tomorrow" I replied in a really confident and nonchalant way with a swiping hand gesture. I think this girl may have heard me as she was walking off. (not sure :S)

I never got a call from my mate today, so I decided to call him. It turns out that his friends went into the city today. The weather's not great, so I think that's why they went there instead of the beach.

I'm not sure what I should do now. We haven't talked about going to the botanical gardens again, and it's Saturday tomorrow! She could have gone there today, and might have made other plans for tomorrow, I'm not sure.

When we were chilling at my mate's, this girl's friend said something about going to the Sydney Opera House to see a band on Tuesday. I think they leave on Wednesday or Thursday, so I don't have long to take action. Not sure if I should see if I can get some cash together for a ticket to that thing at the opera house, and a) hope they invite me between now and then or b) invite myself? I really don't want to impose on them, if they want to go by themselves.

I understand this isn't the be all and end all of my relations with women, but I really dig this girl and would really like to spend some quality time with her before she heads back home.

I really need help with this!

Before I forget: there has been no kino, but there have been a few IOIs (touching hair, gazing into each others eyes, laughing at my jokes etc).

Any thoughts, advice, or tips would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks,

Kozmo.

You are missing your window of opportunity here. She didn't want your number the other night, she wanted you to kiss her. Before she wonders if you have balls or not, make a move. Call you buddy, talk to her, set something nice up and pull the trigger.

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Stop being a douche bag with this "I don't know man"...call your buddy up, and get her number.

TELL HER(dont ask), that your going to pick her around 2pm to go the botanical gardens. NExt your going to let her know, this great food place that you guys can go too.. She'll agree. And just continue escalting it all the way, if you guys are going out tonight, you will be able to get this.

Peace out

We didn't end up going to the gardens, but instead spent the day at the beach with her friend, and my mate, (the one who's place they're crashing at).

After body surfing for a bit, I made my way back onto the beach and sat down, exhausted. She walked over from wherever she had been and sat right down next to me. We had a chat and decided to go for a walk along the coast. On the walk, we escalated kino a little. After leaving the beach we were both so fucking tired from the surf, sun and walk. Despite this, we ended up going out to a house party for a few hours with the other two.

After leaving the party, we went back to this mate's place again. The two of us sat on his porch for a while, and I escalated kino. Putting my arm around her etc. We were both so damn exhausted from the day that we went inside to bed and she fell asleep in my arms. I'm taking her for a rainforest walk on Tuesday before she leaves. She's also told me that I'm welcome to come visit her back at home whenever I want, which I think I may just do.

She's seducing me as much as I her, so this isn't hard at all. I'm liking the pace. Things aren't going really fast, and it makes each step all the more sweet. I'm enjoying savouring the experience and don't even care about any hypothetical 'end results', so to speak. I'm not acting like a pushover as I used to do when I was a teenager which - of course - helps a stack. The simple advice that you guys gave me was invaluable.

Things are going extremely well. Like a nimble cat burglar, I'm in through the window. The trigger has been pulled, and there's a projectile on the fly.

Es muy fucking bueno. Gracias hombres.

Rock on guys,

Kozmo.

nah man you have this senorita in the can man, she likes you and is into you dude, just play it cool and dont stress, just let your inner party flow and enjoy