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PostPosted: Mon Sep 17, 2007 9:01 am 
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First things first, I'm going to be a junior in college this fall. Now, there's this girl who went to my high school, same year as me, whom I still have a crush on. However, she's going to a different college but has transferred over to my college. She will be attending my college starting this fall.

Now, the one time she did indicate that she MAY have liked me during high school was during senior year, when she wanted me to take her to senior prom. However, I refused at the time and I kind of regret it now.

Since then, we have barely hung out since starting college. We've just seen each other a few times at my friend's high school get-together parties every time we visit home. We chat occasionally on AIM and facebook.

I think it's reasonable to assume that we'll be hanging out over the course of the school year, but is it a good idea for me to try and get her attracted to me? Will I be able to use some game tactics on her or will those backfire since she has known me for awhile and probably sees me as just a friend? How would I go about doing it? I appreciate any advice. Thanks!


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First things first. She isn't off limits.

Secondly, you have the advantage of already being past the approach. You can invite her to go somewhere/do something with you, and she won't think anything strange of it (and if she does, blow her off!). There is no reason why she can't walk away with a re-kindled interest in you. If she doesn't, big deal; what doesn't kill us makes us stronger and you have learnt something!

I'd brush up on your techniques, work on a few routines, and maybe you can take her for a coffee (even suggesting a walk around the college for her to get her bearings afterwards, if you think just a coffee would sound weird). It shows your helpful, and after the coffee, the only place she MAY want to see if your room :P

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I've successfully run game on girls that I have hung out with many times before and gotten number closes. It isn't so much about the routines and the lines as it is just the inner game and the peronality you express and how you can make them feel. It takes some routines and lines to make them feel the way you want sometimes, but the best game is run without any canned material. Sometimes it will work better on girls you knew from highschool because they will see how much you have changed and wanna see more.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:19 am 
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I've successfully run game on girls that I have hung out with many times before and gotten number closes. It isn't so much about the routines and the lines as it is just the inner game and the peronality you express and how you can make them feel. It takes some routines and lines to make them feel the way you want sometimes, but the best game is run without any canned material. Sometimes it will work better on girls you knew from highschool because they will see how much you have changed and wanna see more.
That's the best! I'm getting major IOIs from girls I knew before I started PUing because they're so enticed by how different I am.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2007 6:28 am 
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I would use your previous knowledge of her interests to your advantage. If she likes to go to parties, find out who throws the best parties through out the college and make best friends with them. Since you are just starting, i would network and get friends with all the great connections, then I would maybe practice taking another girl out just so you have the pure confidence. During all this i would make slight chit chat with her and show no interest in her by telling more stories about yourself and less asking her questions about her. After you have the confidence and the network with the better parties, ask her if she would like to go to a party with you to "BLAH's" party and its even better if she knows of Blah. Work on regular PUA game there and hopefully after all that work you get her and if not at least you made good friends and learned alot.


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