This is funny...
I used to be about 240 lbs .. very overweight..
Now I'm not... You could say I'm "fit" now ...
Then I started reading about PUA.. and stuff, and I was like.. "No way this is real"
Its funny though .. how we guys almost base our decision to be with a girl totally on looks alone. And we, or at least me, think its the same way around. When its not.
I ask girls, and they say they really don't care, that they look for a good personality, of course.. "Good looks" is basically be well groomed.. not be nasty looking etc...
Still.. this seems to affect my way of thinking and of acting around women a lot... When I see a girl, and I want to go talk to her, I think, she's gonna blow me based on how I look alone... And it affects me a lot, because I keep this mentality, that girls think just like I do... based about 90% on looks...
And it really bugs me to think of it this way ... even though I know its the other way around ...
How can I get to overcome this way of thinking?? How can I stick it in my mind, that my looks won't matter (even though I'm not ugly) I guess I still struggle with some insecurity for when I used to be fat...

Bro, I know exactly what your going through. The thing is and we need to realize it is that the things women look for in a man are totally different than what a man looks for in a women. Women want a guy whos strong, powerful, and confident. Theyd fuck you if you have these qualities and have a little game. On the other hand do you think a woman would like a really hot abercrombie type model guy who acts in ways that show hes needy, insecure, and gives his power away? The answer is... NO!

All this is is just a negative belief you need to do some reframing on. You might be thinking well I dont want to study all of this NLP shit because its too confusing... Well I got good news for you you DONT.

http://www.4shared.com/file/105814686/e ... e.html?s=1

Do this about 3 times per week and work on different beliefs. Trust me the emotions that are tied with these beliefs will go away dramatically. Only if you actually do them right and actually listen onto what hes saying. I know at first it was confusing as shit to me but after really listening in and trying to analyze what hes saying I got the hang of it and got some pretty awesome results too.

Peace!

Last night I was looking into who celebs married to and I found a good example for ur issue!
Jordan SPAM is married to Christina Aguilera! And you'd think the fucking hot sexy Christina Aguilera would only date/marry studs or bodybuilders!
Men go for looks in women and women go for status in men!

Good example.

But maybe....he was a low-key PUA.....and that's why they are together...

hahaha good one, or a 14 inch cock! :p