This is my first time posting on here, I read allot of the post on here and wanted to get some help and opinions.

I was out the other night and I met up with a girl friend, she is in Roller Derby(I'm not after her, I'm after her friend) so she was out with all of her Roller Derby girl friends, witch I had an interest in the one. I noticed her on facebook and said something to my girl friend about hooking me up with her, she was like "shes got a boy friend that she lives with blah blah blah..." she just happen to be there. I talked to her a little bit, thinking she still had a boy friend, I wasn't gaming her hard (Ya I know that doesn't matter but I'm kinda shy and dont like pushing the issue). I found out later that night before we all left to go back to my house that shes moving out with him because hes a "controlling jerk", but by this time shes completely bombed, im still pretty sober. It was just my roommate, girl friend, her, and myself. I was talking with her and having fun until my other roommate came home and two other buddies. So at this point theres to much going on for me to kiss close, number close, I really didn't want to bring her up to my room she was really really hammered and I'm not going to take advantage of her. Before they left I told her "For being in roller derby your not that tough" she proceeded to grab my beer and try to dump it down my shirt(In a fun way) so i grabbed it and tried to get some on her. It was pretty funny at 3:30 in the morning. So they finally left they were going to stay but she was wasted. ok ill get to the point.

I am going to she her this weekend at one of her matches, at this point I dont know if she will even remember me, my girlfriend(her friend) said she was interested in me. So I am just wondering how I should approach her when I see her this weekend. Is a simple "Hi, how are you?" going to work I want to say something funny like, but I can't come up with anything. Everything I can think of, I feel like it comes off as mean. So I guess I was wondering if I could get some openers or approach lines to get her interested again so I can stir up conversation and get her number or go out with her after the match or another night.

Thanks for the help guys, looking forward to anything comments.

Hey dawg, i'm new here also but if you like i can give you my perspective on your situation.

It seems to me that you're either gaming to become a PUA or you're looking for a LTR. If your goal is to pick up girls all the time then u first have to get over that shyness of yours.

Using your girl friend as social proof can help you get more girls imo, but asking her to hook you up with her girlfriend doesn't really show that you're a confident guy (DLV). If you like the girl why not talk directly to her? If you know that she has a BF you can use BF destroyers to get her anyway!

That being said, as played u sitting with your girl-friend and your target (drunk) is a pretty solid set imo. But when other people come into the set you have to isolate your target. You say that you didn't want to take advantage of her by isolating her, that is your own choice (i'd hit it) but if you like this girl you can isolate her, build up the attraction and then tell her that she's drunk and you will not take advantage of her in this state..

This way u build up both attraction and trust and comfort with the girl which she WILL remember.

But i really think that you should know that being a PUA means picking up a lot of girls and it's not really for people searching a GF! Fuck a couple of girls then see if you still feel the same way about the roller skating chick !

GL!

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