looks do matter, its basically like they say "the audition" its the first impression that reads into everything else. looks do matter but only to a certain degree, its really how u make her feel that will make u win her over. if you went and looked at the page where they show u the ratings of the Mpua they get horrible ratings on their looks. look at ross jefferies. lol he looks like a college professor with his pants to tight. no offense LoLl

Eh.... not necessarily. I had a friend whose beard was, in most places, unnoticeable peach fuzz, except for above the corners of his upper lip, making him look kind of like a really greasy cat.

Of course that guy had problems, otherwise. As soon as I first heard of an "AFC" his face popped in my head. Wore raggedy old clothes, every new woman he met became his one-itis, zero self-confidence. So it was probably a rather large mixture of things, but the peach fuzz definitely didn't help.

This just needs to be said once!

Looks mean shit!

If your game is tight, you don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks apart from yourself, then you have absolutely nothing to worry about!

Worrying about looks is a limiting belief - stop comparing yourself to people like Brad Pitt etc and be grateful for what you have, instead of complaining about what you don't have!

Yes I agree fully. It´s the same thing with me. The most womens think I very attracive and hot. Because all the attention I was/is giving from then I have become something like a arrogant asshole to them because I do not want them! But this arrogant asshole thing doesn´t work. So what I have figuered I am going to be the "nice guy" to every girl who I am not interested in. And start to concentrate on the girls who I actually wants!

So YES looks matters but as someone said, you can look OK even if you are not that good looking. Dress well, smell well and try to send a positive wibe. That will change the girls opinion a lot! The most important thing is that you have confidence and accept yourself.

/Imperator

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One thing I have noticed is that you should try not neg too much because you might overqualify yourself and she would just give up on the chase.

Yes looks matter but confidence is the sexiest thing

Hey

My problem with appearance is that I have quite nice face and girls sometimes look at me.But generally girls don't attract to me.Maybe only think they like is my face?
I am 182 cm tall, but i am terrible thin (my weight is only 62 kg). Maybe that's the matter.
Another thing is that I am 22 but I look younger-recently one girl have thought that I'm 19...it might be a problem because most girls prefer man -appearance than boy-appearance.
It the past I was very uncertain and hesistant.I think that is the point so now I working at improving my self-confidence.

You want to work on your self confidence? stop thinking like an AFC. Stop limiting yourself. Know that the girls arent limiting you on what you have. YOU ARE limiting you on what you have. There are PUA out there who at one time felt they were "too thin" "too fat" "too ugly"...young, old etc etc. But they'll soon realize its really them thats limiting themselves not the girls. Truthfully girls may have a preconceived notion of what they physically want, but theyre opinion changes so instantly. Their opinion on the personality of a guy dosen't change as much if at all.

Its all in your head.

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I've picked up girls with greasy bed head, a wrinkly white shirt and dirty jeans. looks aren't everything.