its taken me 2 years, but in 4 weeks ive had such an imrpovement in my game its unbelievable, ive had girls approach me, to tocuh me, to call my name out the next day promising to add me on facebook, girls offering me alcahol, males offering me alcahol, its easy.

i started on the path of game a while ago ive read many a book mystery method and alot of others, my biggest break through has come from the attraction code. 4 weeks ago i sat down decided to read it for the third time while making notes actually learn it like i was learning something for university and thats when everything began to change.

now all the routines and things like that work dont get me wrong, but i believe that these things work because they are what somone would do if they as a person had that attractive mindset and personality that woman are after, so instead of learning routines that work, instead its better to cultivate that mindset and personality as if you only have routines or lines your always limited whereas if you can develop the right attitudes then you can gain success constantly in any situation.

this is the rpocess i used, we all have thoughts and i think if you stop to look at your thoughts in relation to females you will find they are all mostly negative, such as im not good looking enough, im not interesting enough, im not funny enough will she like me shes so hot. the simplest and easiest thing ive done to change my pua career is.

everytime you have a thought thatb is at all negative in nature change it to a positive variation. for example you look at a girl shes hot, you think she wont like me, stop and consciously change it to shel love me, or she thinks im sexy. now the one thing you focus on when talking to a girl is connecting, getting to know her. a direct correlation between my climb in pick up is a knowledge of individual girls perosnalities, their familiy lives their dreams their passions what they want in life things about them. i get this information by talking about myself all the intersting things about me, making statements like "their are so many beautiful things in life im sure yourve sceen alot of cool things" statements that get her to give you interesting responses shes sharing her life with you and this in turn develops a bond and attraction, its like your showing her who you are and this is very attractive to women.

heres a good example im having a fantastic conversation with a sexy girl i know is into me about her passion for art about how art is a beatuiful thing where nothing is right or wrong but something you create and some AFC is talkng to her 5 minutes later about the band aid he has on his foot.i stopped her and got her to come back to me and then asked her "do guys always talk to you about stupid shit like that? i said dont get me wrong hes a really nice guy but i mean a bandaid" i then said no one really talks to you like i do, to which she agreed. ask a girl the craziest thing shes doen talk about the craziest thing yourve done tell them what you love about life, these things are what build a connection. just start putting this thought in your head everyday. every girls always wanted you but yourve just had too many worries to actually realise.

whenever you have one of those worries change it to a positive thought, with a focus on the positive and connecting you realise that each individual woman is actually quite a unique person themselves with their own experiences worries memories ans hopes and dreams this is the level that you aim to communicate on, very few men can do it and woman respond amazingly well to it, the attitude is this i me and i dont give a fuck if anyone else dislikes it or likes it this is me, another point to make is that by chaning my attitudes and thoughts ive actually had 4 different girls stop and say "nice to meet you" this is from a girl ive known for years but to her she told me this was the first time shed really talke to me other girls have referred to the "new and improved me". when you have this attitude you can start to play with body language.

once i started to have the attitude that every girl wanted me other girls i know started referring to my "swagger" they all had a chant that went "no one has swagger like godsdog" not my real name but this attitude came through in my body language and they all picked up on it, they all noticed id now cultivated this sexuality around me. when you think every girl likes you your next thought is you can fuck them all.

and it comes out in the way you present yourself legs wide apart crotch thrust up a little, eye contact and a little smirk at the girl you want. shel respond it mite be her knowing smile, the way shel sexily drink her drink while watching you, theres a while other world of language out there that females love but we just dont realise becuase were too busy focusing on the negatives, cut all those thoughts and it leaves you to notice things and put your own little signals back out.

i went on holiday 6 days at a camping ground og 13,000 people. i have some good stories but this is some of the stuff ive figured out right now, there will be more stories later maybe.

but until then heres is my knowledge take it use it and always think and learn from your interactions, anything is possible.

cheers

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Thanks for the most interesting read. Went through the whole part and you are right of course.

Connection is very important, it's all part of the comfort building stage. If you have comfort you have trust, one of the basis things you need from small things like giving a phone number to having the most extreme sex ever.

Aprouching a girl with an idea that you believe in makes you feel confident: because you know what you're going to do.

Whether it be magic routines, handreading, asking her about life and who she is, asking her for an opinion or whatever... you KNOW that you won't be standing in front of her thinking "what the HECK to say".

Actually you KNOW you will say something that will have a positive effect.

So whether it's your aproach, Mystery's, Style's or who-evers... you will have a lot of confidence and she will see it. Also part of why stuff like this works.


Thanks for the share, will deff use this way of talking in order to make some more comfort.

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Great post Godsdog. Love the stuff on thoughts. One of the things that I found that really helped me out as well was learning to sit still in peace and in silence. Such as sitting down and looking at myself in the mirror. I notice sometimes I'll have thoughts come up like I'm not attractive or whatever, and I do the same thing you do but first I just kind of neutralize the negative thought by just observing it and realizing that it's just something I'm making up or that it's just a choice to feel that way, then I tell myself what I want to believe. "Damn I look good!" LOL

I also noticed that the less I watch TV, listen to the radio that has commercials or pay attention to what other people have or don't have, the better I feel about myself and also the more confident I become. I notice huge improvements in my confidence when I stopped focusing on other people or what the mainstream (commercials) says about me, quoting that I'm inadequate in some way and need something outside of myself to be significant, attractive, adequate or whatever.

I also have learned that the less I focus on getting women and just enjoying my life, but at the same time focusing on believing that I'm attractive and walking around like you said, with that attitude of "All these women think I'm hot and want me." that the easier and more of them that come into my life. I spend a lot less effort now and have more success than I ever did in the beginning stages when I was doing routines and trying to have women attracted to me instead of just believing that I am attractive and women do want me.

Great post

Great post, but next time use punctuations and take out the spelling errors, it's really annoying reading.

I've been doing this even before I got into pickup, I got it from Psychology, it's called "Positive Affirmations".

I used to look in the mirror, think I was ugly and be all insecure (even ask girls stuff like: "Do you think I have a big nose?"), but after doing positive affirmations when I look in the mirror today I actually see someone as attractive as Johnny Depp. Weird, because I haven't changed in appearance at all.

You can really change the way you view yourself (and the world) with this.

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Great Post!

I'v really taken alot from this, thanks everyone : )


Made me look in the mirror, fucken beatiful : )

It's always good to be positive =D.

This is exactly why i have a few quick drinks before I hit the pubs. It completely rids me of any negative thoughts, makes me confident and talk non stop. Basically it's a fucking awesome state to be in when picking up HB's. If you can do this without drinking than that's even better.