So last night i went out. I don't really have a large basis of friends, and they are mainly men.

Anyway i went to a bar first, made some sweet talk with a waitress, asked her when she worked next time, smiled at me and said that only in weekends. Next weekend i'm gonna go for a #close, see if it works.

Next we are searching for a club, and my town is really small, so we(me and 2 more guys) get a call from another friend and go somewhere that is twice the size of my living room.

I just figure the place sucks but i am fun and i don't care about things like that. I'm really confident and everyone can see that and i'm getting eye contact from the few girls around.

We sit at a table and my friends only knows about 2 persons from a table of 12-14. There were 4 girls so i think let's introduce myself to the whole group so we have a good night.

Everyone was looking at me with strange faces, but i didn't care. All eyes were on me. I then go and take an aim for the girls do some cocky funny, getting IOI(hand in hair and giglling).

Then 2 of my friends who are the type of guys who sit at the table, do nothing, and just brag about lies they come up with, tell me to go outside with them to talk. I don't really like them but sometimes they are usefull.

They tell me that everyone was asking who the f**k i was, coes i was hitting on "the're" girls. They weren't even like couples but still. They tell me they wont jump for me if a fight might strike coes the remaining dudes are like no brain AMOG's, or something to that effect.

My buzz just kills and i stay a bit more and then i leave.

What should i have done? Should of stayed and continued to social proof the venue and don't give a shit about the guys there?

Its a tough decision, you probably did the right thing because pussy isnt worth getting your arse kicked for. As a martial artist I know I can handle myself, so when something like this happens It doesn't bother me, unless Im severly outnumbered.

It sounds to me like the guys are your typical blockhead idiots, they have a large pack and will fight other guys over petty things (some even carry weapons like knifes because they cannot fight). They can't really think for themselves and basically just go out and waste all there money. We call them "neds" where im from.

You need to be very careful in situations like these, by the way kudos for approaching a mixed group. I tend to avoid mixed groups for the very reason you ended up in haha.

Peace

U got the types of the dudes right on(except for knives and stuff, not allowed there).

I gotta get my ass in one of those martial arts things too. I'm fairly skinny and never been in a fight before:)

Oh, and there were only mixed sets in the venue so i had to act ... introducing yourself to everybody is funny, u get a wide range of facial expressions but no one says that he doesn't want to meet u:)

Well in situations like these you're gonna have to judge for yourselves, you got a couple options and it's basically just keep gaming or go away. From my own experience i've noticed that if big bad amogs are trying to scare you away from "the're" girls, they will SEEM like taking stuff to a physical level and beat your ass but they will rarely do it.
It's hard to give advice here because it's just about reading the situation, knowing if amogs are just bullshitting or if they're really gonna beat you.
Keep in mind, having wingmen with you could make all the difference, simply by having friends around you, you're 10x as safe as you would be on your own, no matter how much muscle you have.

Remember don't let anyone scare you off too easily, quoting Gunwitch here "natural man won't look for trouble, but he won't try so hard to avoid it either, especially when it's happening"

Ty for reply premierr, i would be so glad to have a wing. It's just that romanian guys are just to self important to think they need help in getting girls.

I have always appreciated help in any direction i take, and girls is one direction i really need it.

I guess in this PUA thing all u need is an open mind. If u don't have that u are never going to become one. We lack those kind of guys around here:(

Anyway, if any romanians around, i would be glad to wing.