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PostPosted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 9:26 pm 
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Not sure I felt really weird last weekend, I was ready to talk to some girls then my friends kept insisting that i go up to girls. I totally shelled up didn't fell like nothing just wanted hang out listen music and dance.

I'm not sure what I was feeling or how to help it I was just like zoned out.

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If you dont feel like doing it, don't do it. It's that simple! Tell your friends you're not in the mood next time and that you're just out to have fun with them. If they leave you be a little, maybe you'll find your flow next time, and if not, just make it a fun night.

When you go out, first goal should be to have FUN, not pick up women, they come second. If you're having fun and everyone can see it, then you will be able to pick up women more easily as well.

Best of luck,

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it depends what you are looking for, if you want to meet girls you need to initiate because more than likely they wont.
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I'm telling you this now, that is straight up an EXCUSE. I know this because I do this A LOT. Hell I did it yesterday. you're simply trying to justify your reason not to approach girls by using "listening to music" and "having a good time." It's just massive AA kicking in.
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