I wanna find a way to avoid telling HBs how old I am. It seems that when girls find out my age (18 ), they deem me "too young" even though before they knew that they were all into me. Mind you there are a few that haven't given a shit. Usually when a girl asks I say twenty, but sometimes I think they can tell I'm lying. Here are some other answers I've thought up but never really used.

Does it really matter how old I am?

me: How old are you"
hb: I'm (insert #)
me: oh, thats not too old/young for me.

I'm whatever age you want me to be.

The thing is they usually press on so I have to give them some sort of answer. I want to be able to avoid it perminately. Should I just keep lying? The thing about lying is, if they think I'm twenty, they think I can get into clubs, they think I can go drinking whatever, but I can't. I recently told a girl I couldn't go out cause I don't carry an iD to protect me from cops, even though I told her I was twenty. Is there any way to get around this?

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it HAS to look and sound real.

I think it's all in your mindset.

If YOU think you're too young, they will think so too. When they ask how old you are, say you're 18 and move the conversation along.

Alternately, you can avoid bringing age altogether. From my experience girls usually don't ask about age unless you bring it up first.

me: How old are you"
hb: I'm (insert #)
me: oh, you're to young for me(if shes older) xD or something else cocky

Girls always ask me this too.. usually I just say the truth and move it along like someone else has said. I remember one really very cute girl I used to hit on in a club I went to often kept saying I was too young. I was 19 and she was 20.. This was before I was into the game though so I had probably just not created enough attraction.

Older HB asking your age:
All she wants to know is that she doesent have to baby sit you. She wants someone who brings something positive/ beneficial into her life instead of causing her more distress.
So dont panic when she says " Oh, you are so young " because all you need to do is that you dont submit into this role which she is offering to you ( you being a kid and there fore having less " value " and dominance ). By this im not talking about you turning into a total dick but instead demostrateing that you simpply wont let this affect to your interaction you are having with her. Instead of retreating back to your shell add more heat to your game because this is your change to hold your ground and make an impact.

So basically hold on to your frame. Dont let her see how it crumbles when she is testing it but instead let her see how it gets even more stronger and powerfull.

[ Johnny B ]

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When you lose, don't lose the lesson. ~Author Unknown
Fear has a large shadow, but he himself is small. ~Ruth Gendler

I wish i had your problem! When a girl asks how old I am I'm worried I'll be to OLD!

What i've found is if i feel it will be a topic of convo, i bring it up first. Showing no fear and negging her FIRST on it. If she's young, then i'm too old for her. If she's older than i'm too young. It puts her on the defensive first, i neg her on THAT... instant DHV.

Most times age doesn't matter, as long as she's not robbing the cradle. Older chicks will be happy a young guy with game is actuaaly choosing THEM over another 18 year old tight-body.

Saying uur too young is a bitch-shield. Just use it against her.

word.

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'An ounce of experience is worth more than a pint of advice'

I've always taken the "You're so/too young" comments as a compliment.

HB: How old are you?
Me: 20
HB: ahhh you're so young
Me: (smiling) thanks

If comments like that bother you, that is fine (I guess..) but like anything that bothers you(shit-tests, bitch-shields, LMR, obstacles, AMOGs) during your sarging don't let her see/know that it bothers you.

in my situation it's the complete opposite, I'm 35, look anywhere between 27-32 and when I go out I usually play the guess game.

I found out that giving the answer too soon or at all gives a negative outlook. Now, I let them guess (women WANT to know) and not tell them until much later.

However, I'm still trying to improve how I can fit that into my mid-game.

I agree with letting them guess. It's playful and it will give you a general idea of what they actually think so you can see whether or not they consider you an age peer.

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*new to the game but looking for fame*

The best way to deal with that question is to either ignore the question and just change the subject, or you could tell them to guess. But my thought on age is this. It doesnt matter. If your 18 and shes 24 and she says something about you being young just say sorry for you huh or flip the frame around and neg her on her age playfully, like sucks for you, youll have grey hair in about 4 years from now, I still got 8 lol. If you think its an issue then it will become an issue so just think nothing of it

or just say I know sucks for you with a smile