This was kinda weird, I went to this bar with some friends and later on the night I got introduced to three women, I started to talk with the three while neggin my target, then two of them gave themselves the "look" and say, let's go to dance! and off they went, leaving me with this girl (my target) I'm pretty confident that I played my cards right, I negged her a couple of times, she laughed, I kino escalated good and a couple of times I said to her "be right back im going with my friends".

Anyway, I started the "trust" test, and I started asking her some questions, we were actually holding hands by the 5 question ( by this I mean hands interlaced) and then I said " how well do you kiss?" and she said "mm I would say like a 10" then I approached to kiss her and he went back, almost sidestepping my move. Akward moment guys.

Now, I did noticed a lot of IoI's on her, I stopped talking and she restarted the chat talking about my necklace, there was also this point where she decided on her own (witouth me asking for it) to kiss me on both cheeks. usual hair grabbing etc.

Now the weird thing is that after she sidestepped my move, she didn't throwed away my hands, she actually held them with hers and asked me " how well do you kiss?" I was like "Im pretty sure that a ten" and she was like " french kissing?" and I responded "Yep, but im not letting you to test that out." and I left her there and went back to my friends.

I had to punish her behaviour . She rejected my kiss, I wasn't going to let her kiss me on her terms so that's why I left her...

So I came back later and she told me that she and her friends were going to another club, and I was like " that's great! pleasure meeting you girl" and I turned my back on her, then she said "you are so mean!" I turn again to face her and then she kissed me. She gave me her number and went out of the club.

Two mins later she returned to ask me my number and to kiss me again.

And then like an hour later she decided to come by herself to stay a little more time with me.

My question is, why did she rejected my kiss in the first time? am I doing something wrong?

Girls don't like to give things away too easily so she might have felt lik eallowing you to kiss her at that moment will have been giving herself away cheaply.

I feel you went for the kiss too quickly because if you reduce the speed of your head movement you will be able to judge her reaction and whether it's a good idea.

I've noticed with some girls, they enjoy being the seducer, therefore you implant the idea in their head that its them who's doing the seducing! sounds either like you tried to kiss her with not enough comfort, or she wanted to kiss on her own terms. not a bad thing sometimes lol

Your game is good dude. Only thing is I wouldn't have went back n forth to my friends as much, because if she's a HB9 or HB10 you risk the chance of walking away and having to come back to some other dude gaming her. I'm curious, ws this chick hot? Not too many GFs leave an HB by herself with the dude. No offense, but sounds like you was gaming a HB5 or HB6. And the other thing I would have done different is I would have isolated her to a different spot in the room and built more comfort with her first before trying to k-close her. K-closing too early (especially in the club) can lead to buyers remorse, meaning you'll never hear from her again because she regrets letting her bitch shield down. So as a rule, I never go for a K-close during the attraction phase unless (based on logistics) I have a good shot at a SNL.

But as far as why she didn't kiss you the 1st time.. come on dude.. she's a bitch.. what else would u expect?? That's what bitches do! It's like asking why did the dog bite me the 1st time it met me. It's a dog. That's what they do. Birds fly, fish swim, and bitches reject dudes. In a perfect world, you'd go in for the kiss and get it, but instead you have to "game" a bitch to get what you want. It's like a cat; you gotta wave the food around a bit before it comes to eat out of your hand, else it won't eat it, even if it's starving. It's inexplicable, but that's just how it is.

I don't know where that comes from, but seriously, you need to learn some respect before you'll be given some back. This attitude will not get you far.


To OP:

Some girls like to tease and flirt. They like to withdraw even though they feel like giiving in just to give in later. It's part of the tango that is seducing and flirting. If she wasn't into you she would of left you right then but she didn't. You didn't do anything wrong nor did she.

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You don't need to know.. take me off of your gadar and focus on the women.

seriously you need to focus on the topic... not me... you seem kinda gay.

This forum is for picking up women NOT MEN!!!!