| I am new to the PUA world and to be honest I haven't had any time to hone my skills. I am reading "The Game", but I am also waiting for other material.
Well ok, first off let me tell you about the situation, sounds a little dumb to some, but I am overseas right now and that hasn't stopped me from experimenting with women. By experiment I mean trying new techniques that I've learned, etc. I figure since I'm leaving anyways, there is no harm in trying new things and what's the worst that can happen?
This particular woman happens to be a massage therapist. Not the kind that gives out hand-jobs or other sick shit, just a legit massage therapist. So I get massages from her regularly about every week to two weeks (only 10$ bucks a massage, not bad). I know I know, just her job right? However...
She kissed me (on the lips, tongue the whole sha-bang), it was two occasions. Yes I intitiated it both times, more the first time than second, but it happened. She was about a HB7-8 you could say. I mean up close, seeing her curves, six-pack and tight ass made her closer to a 9, she just has a little chubby face (she's Asian though so it's all good). I would post a pic (we took one together), but I don't have it on this computer.
I'm a pretty crazy guy, when it comes to trying new things. I have no fear with it. I'm opened minded.
Anyway cutting to the point, I started looking into one of those "forbidden techniques" (gasp, how dramatic). Anyways, no laughing matter. I figured I be dumb and try something new (wish I hadn't now). If I were to say the name of implied technique here I might be banned from this forum, so I won't.
NOTE: This "NLP routine" is not a form of hypnosis, but something you do together with a woman, not on!
So I tried this technique, which is supposed to make a woman become more infatuated with you (or stalkerish in some cases).
I did it seemingly with feeling and I thought it was presented decently, but the whole time she sort of picked up on what I was doing. She said things like, are you using psychology (I denied any such involvement) and she assumed I was just ignorant of the fact.
So after I used this and a few lines which I had picked up, her whole tone changed. She become "depressed" almost. It was horrible. She teared up, continued working and then wouldn't talk at all!? I immediately said,
"Oh Shit. What did I do?"
It was only a whisper, but I figured that I had screwed everything up that very moment. She then wouldn't talk to me at all (she is usually very conversive). She looked away and I could barely see her wiping tears from her eyes. It might have been something to do with the fact I told her that I was ok with leaving too (after she explained to me that she would be ok after I left to go back home, but she might be a little sad).
Anyways to explain things a bit better, she did say that she gets quiet at times and won't talk to anyone, not even family. It's like a bad side to her she says. She said this is that side to her I didn't see before. She also said it wasn't my fault she was like this at that moment (however we both knew it was something I said, namely the sequence I was using).
So I am concerned about her. She hasn't replied to any of my e-mails or messages. She seemed very upset after I left and I think I may have pissed her off. We had plans to see each other after my 'deployment' was over with, because she liked me so much. I'm worried those might have changed now.
What do you think happened and what advice can you give me in making things like they were before I decided to go off the deep end?
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