All too often I see men trying to pick up women for many, many wrong reasons. One of those reasons is because the guy is UNHAPPY and he believes that a girl will bring him true HAPPINESS. The happiness that comes along with a girl is temporary.

Don't get me wrong, a woman of quality can certainly add to the level of joy in our lives but they wont create that joy! The media constantly bombards with all kinds of fancy (and often shiny) products and ideas that they say will make you happy! that will give you joy! That will give your pathetic life meaning! And what do you have to for these things? THREE easy payments of ONLY $19.99!

Here is the truth guys, happiness is within you. Don't get it? Read that line again.

Happiness is within you!

Its such a simple point but most men simply don't realize it.

This is why I stress that Pick up should be a process of self improvement. Make your life and self better so that you're happy. A woman can sense when a guy is filled with joy and she wants to be apart of that!

Being TRULY HAPPY is the BIGGEST attraction switch there is.

Are you happy? If the answer is anything but a "hell yes I am" then work on yourself.

Peace.

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Happiness...

I wish there was a way of getting that thing covered forever. Is a second of happiness worth a day of pain? an hour? a year?

This is when this stuff starts getting to deep for the regular forum users.

You've got happiness in ur life W M?

If you do, tell me what u are doing right. Please.

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Teasing is a battle plan for what Shakespeare called “the merry war.”

Personally I equate personal happiness with one thing: perspective. Always keep in mind the difference between things you want and things you need. For me personally: I need to continue going to college, I need a good education, I need to keep my inner circle of friends, and I need to see progress in my life. Everything else is just icing on the cake; granted women are probably the sugar of said icing. As long as you can keep a consistent frame of mind, and your needs outweigh your wants, you will be happy. It's when the wants become the forefront of your life that stuff starts getting a little shaky. Life should be an adventure, sometimes we all lose track of this but it's up to ourselves and those closest to us to keep us on our toes.

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"All the dragons in our lives are perhaps princesses expecting us to be handsome and brave, all the terrifying things are perhaps nothing but helpless things waiting for us to help them." Rilke

Well said.

I'd like to add that each person needs something they're really passionate about in their lives though, be it a sport, hobby, or work it needs to be something that takes precedent over everything else.

Absolutely, I know for me it's..well many things. I've always been a very passionate person. I guess my greatest passion is becoming a man of the world, which goes hand in hand with my education. In a few years, I'll be heading to law school, hopefully doing so will lead me down my path. I think one of the most important tenets of happiness is knowing what you're passionate about and pursuing it no matter what. Sure you might not always be happy during the pursuit but in the end, the juice is worth the squeeze.

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"All the dragons in our lives are perhaps princesses expecting us to be handsome and brave, all the terrifying things are perhaps nothing but helpless things waiting for us to help them." Rilke

So many things come into play when talking about happiness. You can't just have a set of things in your life and think that it'll make you happy.

Your mood and state changes all the time, so you have to adapt your activities towards that. Helps feel happiness in my opinion.

Personally, I find myself to be a very, very happy person, and it shows in many ways. One example is that I get over things much faster.

Making women (and all people) happy can bring happiness

True, but only as long as you're doing it because you want to; not because you need an ego boost, and not because you have a void to fill. Not saying the occasional ego boost is wrong, but if that's all you're doing then you're walking the wrong path.

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"All the dragons in our lives are perhaps princesses expecting us to be handsome and brave, all the terrifying things are perhaps nothing but helpless things waiting for us to help them." Rilke

Agree with most of you. Echo Amador.

It depends on your inner game and the amount you invest in the relationship.

If you allow yourself to invest, you have to understand that you're exposing yourself to the potential for much heartache. But, a decent LTR does require some degree of investment.

Such is the game we play.

You cannot enter the game expecting happiness all the time. You have to be prepared for heartache, and heartache is not related to how good your outer game is. It hits us all. There's always a special bitch who fries your brain enough for you to not only forget the meaning of 'there's plenty more fish in the sea', but actively despise it.

This is a MUST READ to all the newbies and guys interestd in pick up. Most guys get into pickup because they lack self esteem and they think women will give them that self esteem boost. For a period of time maybe they will but it wont bring you durable self esteem. All the things most people think pick up is is not. For me im doing this whole thing because I want to improve the quality of my life. Not to get laid. Personally, all ive been doing was inner game work now for quite some while and havent gone out sarging in a really long time. Like REAL sarging.

Im gonna tell you that all the things in life you think that will make you happy will not. These things include money, power, and success with women. Really if you dont get the reality of this then look at all the rock stars who have women sleeping with them every night and make tons of money. You see them on reality shows, hear about them committing suicide, and hear about them going to rehab. The successes they had DID NOT bring them happiness. Happiness and joy is brought from within yourself and not from the outside enviroment.

Hey, maybe not girls, but having sex a few times a week = peace of mind. Come on...

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