So, I just went out on a date with an hb7.5 that I met while I was working. She's a shy girl, but as far as I can tell (and as far as her friends, who're rooting for this A LOT, can tell) she's really into me. I didn't really even game her at all, just made fun of her one night. So anyways, date went well, didn't push anything at the end, to keep her from being too uncomfortable. Her friend found me on Facebook today and invited me to hb7.5's surprise birthday party next week. I'd have to take work off to do this. We have tentative plans to go out drinking together this Friday night. You guys think it's a wise idea to try to attend, or should I try to lay a bit lower, seem busier?

lol, i would go for sure.

If you were planning to drink, i'm sure there will be drinks there

And if you wanted to meet girls there would be plenty there, hahah invite your friends there too!

Do you think your presence would bring happiness to this person?

Do you think it'd make you happy to bring joy to this person's life on that night?

Do you think going to the party with her friends, having a great time, will bring the both of you closer?

Do you think it'd be great to be a part of her world that night and possibly drawing her into yours?

Do you think she'd be more relaxed and comfortable around you going forward if you guys connect that night?

Hope you take the decision that feels right to you.