Im new to the game, but it seems to be paying off. I am currently working abroad but was back home for Christmas and New Year. During that 2 week period I met up with an amazing girl. Day1 went really well, and there was definately attraction and plenty of flirting happening. We agreed that when I am back home for good in February she will come round for dinner at my house.

My dilema is what do I do through out January whilst I am abroad. Do I contact her regularly or not at all. If I contact her, how often, and how do I play the conversation. I dont want it to turn into "Friends" but I want her to know I am interested and for her to wait till Feb when I home for good.

Any help or suggestion would be really appreciated as I understand this is not an ideal situation.

Hey bro welcome to the community!

Your situation is not really an easy one, but what - I - would do is text her some day soon, letting her know how much fun I'm having. Like, if you just went rock climbing or whatever (has to be something special though, not like "hey i just went to the gym lol") you can say "how about we go do that before we have dinner?"

So, make it something exciting/adventurous, think of something you can go do together before you have your dinner. This should spark a small conversation, it will remind her of you and that you two are having dinner. Dont text her too much when you're texting back and forth, tell her you gotta go do something (make it seem important haha) and tell her you'll text her again.

Then you can take your time with texting again.

Best of luck,

Chillburg