ive heard many opinions on waitresses and bar tenders etc.. so i dont need that... i get waitresses nums 9 out of 10 times i try....i got one the other day where my friends gf works and the girls bf works as the bartender at the same place! she didnt even tell me she had a bf til i found out later from the other girl.. anyways....

my buddy and i started hitting up this local restaurant....kelseys.... and we've been there 3 times.....randmly decided to start goin there for hockey games... long story short i started talking ufc to our waitress.. shes like an 8..i asked her to introduce me to this asian waitress that was working... cuz shes cute... and she told me that girl is almost never there ad she goes to school an hour away.. (damn) sh went and told her to come see me anyways. but she was running around like crazy nd couldnt til she was done....

(we had to bounce cuz my buddy had to work in 20 mins so) i told our waitress that and she was like "noo. but she was pretty interested....so anyways got OUr wiatresses name and num...BUT. there was a table down from us where all the other waitresses were eating.. aside from the others that werent working.. there was this asian one.. 8.5..(i prefer asians) and she was staring me down hard.....but shed joined after i asked about the OTHER one that was working.... and then i had gotten this ones num.. aproaching that table woulda made me look hilarious.....

so that was day 1 at this place... week later we are back.... and the table asian is working.... we grab a seat..... she is serving a section that isnt ours.. . the waitress from before... comes over and starts talking to me.... eat and leave..

next time ...same deal.... asian girl working again but not our section.. dammit!

so i just want to randomly stop her and say "hi.... i know ur busy...but ur really cute....(intro myself) i wanna talk to you when ur not running around so much...so here (hand phone) give me ur email addy... and im gonna msg u later... dont worry... ive been here like 3 times... we're practically best friends... oh put ur num on there too... u a txter or a caller? there IS a right answer (most say txt).. kewl ill txt u...."

its tought o build anything in a walk by and shes truly on a time constraint...
i could get the first waitress to intro me.. i know she'll do it. but that might lead to "well he asked about so and so first and now"....

any tips? otherwise im just gonna do wat i said tonight or tomorrow and see..*shrugs*.....

Damn Chester,you working that restaurant(lol).

Good thing you didn't aproach the table where all the waitresses were to try a # close-would've made you look like a player since you'd already #closed few of them previously.

Anyway,I think the best bet's for you to use the approach that you'd thought about-seems solid that I may steal it(lol).But why be so direct though telling her she's cute? That's telegraphing way too much way too early.And I think you should be the one using FTC by saying that you're busy which means you have a life and not just there spying on her to get a # close. You're making her seem more valuable by saying she's busy,etc. PS:Chuck Lidell is the fucking man of the UFC(lol)

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hmmm...

well the time constraint thing might work if i say it as a joke cuz obviously shes the one working..

but the reason i b direct with tellin her shes cute... is cuz shes gonna think "this guy just wants to fuk me" ... i can disarm that by saying i think shes cute.. and just wanna talk...

otherwise why did i go up to THIS waitress and not the less attractive one working the other section?....id need a reason... i almost never do opinion openers unless they are original and on the spot.. and it wouldnt work here anyways... i could just say hi... give me ur number... haha.. but i dont see that working.. i need something that says why i stopped her and fills enuff of the time in the one line to not lead into a convo (cuz she has to get bak to customers) the cute thing gives the reason i stopped her .... only prob i see with it is its the only reason i wana talk later...but there really isnt much other option..hence the post here.. heh

The cute line gives you a reason to stop her!!!?
The cute thing will disarm her!!!?

The cute line won't disarm her.It'd make her think that you're a stalker,an AFC or a guy who doesn't get any girls.

You may most likely still get her # that way.But will it be a solid # or a throw away #?

We men must understand this-#'s aren't really that important to women.They don't generally mine giving them out and just dodge your call later(lol). Women will give their #'s so I don't see why guys sill get so hyped over #closes!

I would recommend keeping the cute line out-seems a bit creepy in this situation.

Frankly,since you know may see this chic again(you know where she works),fuck the #close so soon. Just chat her up,a little fluff talk,negs,comments,etc.

Don't rush to #close when you know you're going to see her again. Let the attraction build by telling her 1 or 2 interesting thing per meeting.

Most guys get no where because they #close too soon before the HB's attracted.Just because she gives the # doesn't mean she's attracted-she could be trying to get rid of you.

Do not go for the #close so soon!! I know the urge may kill you but its better to attract her first than to get the # with zero attraction. Don't rush,you know where she works.

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Well I disagree w some of that. Iv used the direct cute approach in clubs a lot w success. But like I said she stared me down ... I know physically she's attracted n she's a waitress... Lotsa guys hit on her my two lines here n there won't be well remembered. I kno for sure I can close easily as long as she answers the call or the txt.. I'm not new at this. I haven't evenbothered to to call the other one . Cuz I don't care ... Def not needy. Dontfight me on this work w me here. I kno the direct cute approach works. Wat else u got? I have alot of waitress experience... I'm sure the repeat approach makes things worse. They start to see u as that guy that comes by to see u. Awwwwww until it's creepy or annoying. It's not rushing it's to the point.

Thanks for clarifying that Chester. I knew you weren't new at this.

As I said,I like your proposed approach. In fact,I said that Im gona steal it and use it(lol). I just wouldn't use the cute line. But you have a point,maybe she won't remember.

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Sounds like you have the confidence to pull it off... Nothing wrong with being direct if you've got the right state of mind - plus- you did get a stare down previously so she's probably hoping for you to say something.

My only suggestion would be to add some humour in there somehow...otherwise go for it and report back.

thanks for the replies..

was hopin for a bit more but maybe i hav the best idea to begin with..

k-loc: hx for ur opinions.. if u say it right the i think ur cute and wana talk works well..protrays u as confident like u dont hav to beat around the bush to talk to her .. cuz even when guys use openers... the girl knows hes there cuz he likes how she looks.... ur just distracting her with a story or some shit so she doesnt really push u on it at first... but otherwise not knowing anything about her.. why would u go and talk to her at all. its seriously ust more about HOW u say it...

and ya go for it .. use it.. the txt or call part is good too.. u have to say that there IS a right answer (for me its texting.. cuz im so busy i hate taking calls).



i agree with addng humour.. i did add the "ive been here like 3 times now.. we're practically like best friends." i can tag on.. sides if you get annoying and i dont wanna talk to you anymre. u can always quit ur job and move to alaska..thats the best solution since its so much harder finding a good place to watch the game these days"

i have tons. but i need to keep it short.... cuz like i said. these waitresses get mad busy. they run around non stop. im literally gonna stop her mid track as im walking by her and be like "hey...." its almost as tough as trying to pick up at a traffic light... (no i havent tried it and wouldnt advise that) lol

anyhow i havent gone back there yet.. i will this thurs most likely....ill report..

more suggestions are welcome before then as well.

thnks