Hi folks,

I'm a newbie in this game and obviously you can see that from my join date here.

To cut things short, I've been after one girl for over few months now. She's those type of girls that I hope can build a long term relationship with...And I met her via Facebook but we never talk on Facebook before. (I didn't want to talk to her just in case she thinks I'm a stalker)

Recently, I found out that she's going to a party in a nightclub this Thursday and I decided to go to the party too just to approach her and have our first conversation.

My goal is really to at least get to be friend and attract her if possible but no idea how to do it.

The problem is that she will be leaving the country soon (about two weeks time I guess) for education and I obviously don't have much time.

I would be really grateful if anyone here can help me with this matter.

At least tell me how to open to her.

But honestly, any help would be appreciated.




Cheers,
Andrew

PS: I think I'm a okay-looking guy (just got a simple makeover with the hair, clothings and got my ear pierced)

First off, I would say its tough to go after girls you put up on a pedestal. It creates oneitis stress on you and you tend to lose frame while gaming her.

If you still would like to give it a shot, you need to treat her like anyother girl in the club, if you spend the night following her around, making her your only target, good chance she will notice and get bored or turned off. Look up cat string theory if you dont know it and you will see what i mean.

When you get to the club, open other sets, raise up your social proof in the club before you hang out with her. Good thing to do, would be find a set of girls, set up attraction in that group and move that set to the one with the girl you like, you earn major DHV points by this, then game her from there. Once you get some IOI's isolate here, work up the kino escalation and attraction. Then close and set up a day 2. Whatever you do, dont continue just being her facebook friend.

Now, this is only one way of the millions that you can gain attraction with her, find some cool openers you can use, get some good kino techniques and so on. However remain, confident around her and make yourself the target initially, not her.

Good Luck and HAVE FUN with this, if stuff doesnt work out with this chick, you still have the rest of the club to game!

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What a dick! Right!?!

OK.

Open other sets.

Get other girls first to raise DHV.

Then approach her.

How should I approach her then? (she usually have guys around her)

Once you have high value its as simple as "Dont i kno you from somewhere?" and definately dont mention that you went there jus to approach her... then all your value goes straight out the window.

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