I realize this question has been asked before, but it's pretty difficult to locate a good answer.

I'm not asking for the perfect opener, but you still need something to open with that doesn't sound cheesy. I find canned material is extremely difficult to use because I have to repeat myself and they are often longer. I also can't dance so I generally avoid the dance floor.

Anyone got any suggestions? I'm also working on projecting my voice, but if anyone has anything then that'd be great.

Opinion openers!

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Do opinion openers really work at a club with loud music? I imagine the mood is really different so people wouldn't respond well to it. I'm sure someone has tried it, what opinion opener do you guys use? and how do people usually respond?

Best opener that I've found so far is a big, genuine smile. Honestly, a smile alone has been enough to get around 70% of the girls I flash it to to come up to me and open me up, and I'm not exactly George Clooney.

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Yeah, I've heard this works well, but it's not always possible to open your target if she doesn't notice you or she may be extremely shy.

I know people believe what you open with doesn't really matter, but I figure "hey, how's it going?" MAY telegraph interest or is too generic, while most canned openers are for a more quiet setting.

If they cant hear you probably, than the effort of you screaming louder than a huge amplifier is stupit. Why waste energy to push it through when this is just one of her senses ( her ability to hear )?

So what are the two major factors that helps you if the music is so loud that they cant hear you?

Answer:
Your Kino ( her ability to feel your touch ) + Your Bodylanguage ( her visuality ). Why start screaming louder than the music and not for example take a deep eye contact, wave to her and than touch her gently in a socially accetable way.

[ Johnny B ]

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