I am fairly new to the game and have been trying this stuff with a reasonable amount of success. On the weekend I was with a crazy girl that lives in a college unit below me. I went to the beach with her and her friends eariler in the day but didnt try any mooves. However later on in the night we were all out at a night club. Her and I began to engage in some pretty intense dancing, I was increasing kino by the second but still trying not to get/seem too creepy. After a while she said 'lets bail' and we headed out to another nightclub. On the way she grabbed my hand as we walked together. What an opportinuity to test for IOI's. I squeezed her hand but she didnt squeeze back, however I kept doing it while talking and making jokes and pretty soon she was squezing back. When we were in the line she kept touching me so I decided to test out for more IOI's. I dont know weather this is an IOI tester but I placed my arm around her and waited for a response which she gave me by putting her arm back around me. In this club the dancing intensified I walked back when we were dancing and she came to me. Enough IOI's. I didnt bother pulling any closing mooves, just stright into the pash. We were kissing every now and then, all initiated by me, and I then started to only dance grinding up against her. One of my mates came in and she pulled away from me and danced with the two of us. Funky Dancing it was cool but I kept trying to get in close which I propally shouldnt have. I think at this point my IOI's became redundant and lost her, she wasnt giving any off any and I didnt see that. Also I think I had given the cat the string by not playing hard to get anymore, she had me. She bailed after this. Later on in the night she was dancing with people around me, none of which she really knew, and we kept playing a game of chess, I was trying to get her come to me. This didnt work. Did I ruin it by thinking I had her instead of making her think do I really have him? Give me some opinons if you like.

I'm new to the game too man, but jesus... the girl is giving you IOIs you didn't even have to grab her hand. You should have isolated her and kiss-closed. After that, tell her you have to get a drink or use the bathroom and then walk around for a little bit to keep her wondering where you are. After that you should have just played it cool, she does live in the unit below you, she isn't going anywhere...

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Yeah man your right. I walked two steps forward without walking back one. I was advancing too fast and didn't need to, haha especially if if she lives in the room below me. Thanks for the advice bro.