So I met this HB8 at a party last night. We talked for a while. I ended up getting the K-close and N-Close. We were pretty close the rest of the night, holding each other and such. Now the next day I don't get a response when I try to call or text. What does this usually mean? How should I attempt to contact if at all? Should I continue to call until I get an answer or does this seem desperate? Should I just give up? Any help with this one? I already tried to call twice today. Thanks for the help guys.

If you are familiar with the mistery method, it looks like you went fine thru A1 and A2 and you kino scalated accordingly, my bet is that she has buyer's remorse and that's why she isn't calling you back.

From what I read is what I can tell you, in my opinion, move along to another girl, if you try to contact her you will be seen as needy, if she has your number and she is interested, she will call you back.

Do yourself a favour and dont chase her to death. Give her time. She knows that you made a contact since you text/ called. I usually make only one phone call or a text message ( i still prefer calling instead of texting ) when reaching her for the first time. If she wants to see me again she will call back and if not than who cares. Next please. If you start calling and sending messages you may come as a desperate guy who doesent give her enough space to make HER own decision because YOU are trying to make it for her. When you dont leave any space for her imagination and thoughts, it may ( and IMO it will ) effect negatively to the way she responds back... If she responds.

Santa Clause may be a nice visitor every once in a year but imagine that guy falling through your chimney every freaking day or calling you constantly eventough he would give you presents... Annoying right?

[ Johnny B ]

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Thanks much for the advice guys! I felt that I really shouldn't spend time chasing her down but sometimes I get carried away and lose my bearing lol. That's why I tried to get your guys opinions first before I acted! And btw that santa clause analogy is pretty fuckin funny and it made alot of sense to me!!

Anyway I will just post a report of how I got her number and made out for like 5 minutes in case it will be of help to anyone..

I was at a house party. She showed up with one of her friends. I talked with the both of them for a while. Where you guys from? Do you like it there? Do you go to college here? etc. Then after awhile of that stuff I got the one HB8 by herself asked them what they were doing later and told them they should come back to my place! She responded well to it but they had to go and watch a kid later that night so it wasn't going to work out. Anyway it followed with me going with HB8 to the store to pickup some stuff. She drove. I took this opportunity to start rubbing against her skin and holding hands and joking and having fun with her. Then I tried to run my hand up her leg under her skirt which she let me do for a little and then she got kind of nervous and put an end to that. I tried to do it a couple more times, each time doing it for longer. We continued to talk more about sex and stuff and she kept telling me how funny I was. Then we made it back to the house and I made it a point that we should kiss. We made out for like 5 min then went inside. After that I told her to give me her phone number. She responded well and gave me it. Then awhile later they had to leave and we hugged goodbye and whatever. Then I tried to text her later that night with no response. Then I texted her and called twice the next day. I felt that this was more of a persistent thing rather then a desperate thing but I failed to realize that she probably would look at it as desperate as you guys have pointed out.

Anyway that's my report. Am I too forward and persistent in my ways? I am a really confident person. Almost too much confidence sometimes. I just feel that the best way to get girls is to go up and tell them exactly what you want. Kind of cut out all the bullshit. Good thinking or no? Also what reasons do you guys think for her not picking up? I say shes probably scared at how fast we moved or doesn't want to feel like a slut. Or hell, maybe she just flat out didn't like me.

Thanks for reading guys and please give me some opinions on good and bad stuff I did. I can't wait to get really good at this shit so I can contribute back and help everyone else!

Yes, its good thinking, you are out there and not afraid. There would be a lot of girls who would just get freeked out and you may not have a lot of dates but at the same time your direct game would help you get laid consistently. And girls involved with you would know what you want and why you are with them. Simple direct and you both ar eon the same page.


My guess is the only time you'd hear back from her is when she is horney and wants your dick. So dont count on hearing back. She turned her on and she went with the flow and then after the moment passed she got her composure back. DONT CALL HER OR CHASE HER. LET HER GET BACK TO YOU IF SHE WANTS TO, PERIOD.

BTW the Santa Clause analogy was helarious