first of all i'd like to say that i'm totally newbie at this pick up but if i had one gift then it would be defenitely "when i put something in my mind i must do it" so I decided to start learning and (trying) to pick up some women and learn some picking up skills...


last week I went to the mall with my male friends(they are all just like me with girls but I'm kinda the group leader) and I saw two girls infront of me on the escalators,and I noticed that the hot one of them(about HB7) had her shoelace untied so I was just looking at her and she gave me that look(wtf .. what the hell you want??? but with a fuckin smile) so I told her "your shoelace is untied" just ordinary, i didn't say something weird. but she said to me "mind your own business" so I smiled to her in a confident way and said "it's nothing .. I just tell you"....so she repeated her aggressive attitude and also said"it's not your buisness"... Then really I was fucked up in the inside .. I didn't know what to say or where this will take me so I just decided to act cool and also defend my alphaness ... Keeping my confident,I told her "no..it's my business" ( i know it's kinda stupid but the girl really got on my nerves)then she repeated "no it's not your buisness" then I went again "no...it's my buisness"( It's fuckin hilarious i know but i just reacted genuinely)so she looked at her friend who was smiling (or laughing .. i don't remember) "he must be crazy" and then her sound turned to be loud and I really didnt want the security guys to come and get me for this stupid shit........so I told her "ok ok go ahead...I wanna pass by"but in an agressive way.

when i got out of this situation I was really proud of myself not of course getting rejected but because I made somethin really new to me ...


so I want anyone to tell me what I have done wrong , to figure out and avoid it again....

Well, to start off, if you were at the mall, why did you only approach one set. If you are serious about getting into the game, you should not allow yourself to get blown out that easy. You sound like a strong minded person, allow yourself to get out there and meet new people. Which brings me to my next point,
If you say you are sarging with inadequate wingman, it can ruin your game and confidence, I have horrible stories of winging with the wrong guys and it has lost me many lays. So if you are going to sarge, find someone who knows the game (the best), someone respectful with natural game, or at least go by yourself.
Try watching The Pick Up Artist and just imitate, get some material and go from their.

Good Luck out there!!!!

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thanks dude..I think that was a good advice...I know I should get myself a wing. I'll try to find one, but the problem is that I really don't know any wings as close friends or somethin, except for my little bro(younger than me by 3 years),he really is good with the ladies, but you know I have that PRESTIGE in my family that I'm the big brother that my little bro come and tell me what his problems are and so,
So I won't go and ask him how to be successful with girls of course, I'm the older one , the smarter one, and the strong one. It will just kill my ego.

so what you think will help me in this situation ??

You know, wings are a good thing, but i almost never wing with anyone. I would go out and game. Honestly, that is the only way you can play this game. There is no harm in reading this forum and studying material, but it wont get you anywhere if you dont use it.
I dont really know your age group or what kind of town you live in, but try working on day and night game. I love the grocery store and bookstore locations as much as the parties. If you're ready to go out there, make sure you look nice, work on good fashion and body language. Get together some canned openers, work on some kino and DHV stories and you should be set to go.
Trust me, it starts off a little rough, but if it was easy, we wouldnt need this forum right?
Go out and have fun! Meet some new people, and remember, this is fun stuff, dont think of it as a task or a chore, its and adventure!!!!

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