Im having trouble with a girl who is just very passive and unresponsive to kino and sexual escalation. She wont give me ANY possitive or negitive feedback. SHe just acts like nothing is happening, she doesnt like it or hate it.


So to make this short.

-I am a filmmaker(21). Shes a film grad (22 HB7.5).

-She just got out of a 3 year relationship.

-I met her on a 3 day shoot, we talked but never hit it off.

-She Facebooks me 2 months later and says: "why havent i seen you in nearly 2 months? this needs to change. i believe we said we were going to hang out and it never happened..."

-We end up meeting up for coffee.

-We end up spending 10 hours together that day. I bring her to my house, she brings me to hers.

-Nothing happens. I played a fair game, we had a genuine good time and never stopped talking and being cocky/funny.

-She tells me we have to hang out again. We do 2 days later.

-I try to up my game with Kino and Gambits, and she is unresponsive in either way (positive or negative)

-We drink a couple beers, then smoke a bit which she says is putting her to sleep.

-She asks me to keep her awake.

-I end up caressing her face, shoulders, back, arms, neck and play with her hand.

-She is completely unresponsive in eith way (negitive or possitive).

-Nothing ends up happening. She sleeps over and we hang out a little in the morning before i go to work.


Usually girls are jumping to kiss. But im unable to read her. How come she wont resist or respond in a possitive way? I don't want a doll, I want a person!

I can PM a field report to anyone that needs more info.

Well, did you set up kino and attraction on the first date? If you dont set up that sexual tension early, you can enter that lgbf zone. This is especially true in your case, because you already knew the girl. I would just abandon this one (keep her as a friend, she may make a good wing) and go out and get more, thats the joys of being a pua.

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What a dick! Right!?!

I disagree with the post above.

If she is not reacting either positive nor negative - you don't know how she feels like, right? The fact is - she could just be nervous or scared of making a kino approach herself!

So what should be done now? You wanna find out how she actually feels, right? There's only one way to do it: Next time you're alone and the vibe is on - kiss her.

Negative reaction = Do whatever you want. Keep her as a friend, keep gaming her or ditch her.

Positive reaction = .... You've scored a kiss. Congratulations. Now keep gaming her and try an F-close. [/u]